Wife texting other man!!!
Hi everyone, I am new to this site.
I wont drag this on any longer then need be. My common law spouse is texting another man. I nailed her on it a few months ago when she forgot to delete her messages. They were talking in a sexual way, asking questions about each others sex life, she never said anything about not being happy about her sex life. I know the guy well, we hang around sometimes but he is not from the area, he lives 1 1/2 hours away. My spouse is good friends with his girlfriend. I am not sure if she is aware of the texting between my spouse and her boyfriend.
When I nailed her on it, she said it was just for fun "nothing is going on". Last week I noticed his name on her text list again but she is deleting the messages. Could she be deleting the messages so I dont get angry when there is really nothing other then good fun going or could it be more then just a good laugh.
Basicaly my question is, how should I go about dealing with this issue. Should I ask her face to face? Should I try to secretly talk to his girlfriend to see what she knows about it? or Should I ride it out for a bit and keep track of what is going on.
Also for all you tech people out there, her cell is under my name, is their anyway that any texting from her phone could be forwarded to my cell without her knowing?
Thanks in Advance