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Old 05-17-2011, 01:39 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Why is it that my H thinks I need to know the details of his whereabouts at any time and whereabouts while with the OW?? What should my reply back to him be....if any??? Any reply should be non-confrontational. Just don't get it!
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Old 05-17-2011, 01:41 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 05-17-2011, 01:55 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 05-17-2011, 02:16 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Are you separated? Has a divorce been filed?

If so, tell him you don't care to know anymore.

If you are still living w/ him, I'd tell him you don't care to know about their outings and have his stuff packed when he gets home.
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We are separated (3 months). I filed for divorce to settle a visitation issue about the girlfriend meeting my children! Needless to say....I won that issue in court!
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Old 05-17-2011, 02:26 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Ok if you're separated I have no idea why he is bothering to tell you about where he goes with her. Out of spite? That is pretty low down. I would not respond to his texts about her at all.
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Ignore this insensitive creep !!!!
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Old 05-17-2011, 10:09 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Change your phone number and communicate with him about the kids via email only. You don't need to have him him call or text you with this crap.
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