Re: Unhappily married and falling for other woman
You begrudgingly entered a marriage and hoped you would fall in love, as if a lump of magic might fall upon you. Love is a daily choice and a failed marriage means two people have failed. The solution isn't to leap into another but to figure out where you went wrong, adjust fire, and learn to live as a healthy, happy, single Gatorclan. Later, once you've accomplished that, you might be ready to meet, date, and maybe even marry another healthy, available person. This other woman may be the one, but the timing and circumstances are wrong. You really don't want to bring residual adultary related drama to the place you collect your paychecks. If she finds her husband controlling, such an action-oriented person might be expected to come down to the school and wear his butt for a hat, making life unpleasant and maybe even hazardous for you. I've always avoided mingling romanceor sex with my career. Whether the romance goes north or south, I still have to pay bills. It'd be impossible for you to say your relationship had nothing to do with school because that's how met her and your only in-person contacts have been at school functions (so far). Seems very risky to me.