06-06-2011, 08:54 AM
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: So Cal
| | Re: Moving on.
Cut yourself some slack. What you experienced was an emotional tsunami that turned your world and everything you believed in upside down. Even those of us who never reconciled after DDay had to go through the painful personal recovery process.
Don't allow your husband to tell you to 'get over it'. He's not the one experiencing the ordeal of betrayal, you are. If he's chosen to reconcile with you, then he should be emotionally supportive of you during those difficult moments that you will continue to experience from time to time.
I wish you and your the best.
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