How would you interpret this message

KanDo · 01-11-2012, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by chapparal

Did she move back to the town Jim(?) lives in?

Yes. Even had call from him while she was here picking up stuff.

Dadof3 · 01-11-2012, 03:40 PM

Sounds Narcissistic.

Initfortheduration · 01-11-2012, 03:59 PM

Kudos Kando! He called because he knows your wife is a cheating skank, and can't be trusted to not go heals up under anyone. Your response was direct and harsh, exactly what you needed. Standing up for yourself, shows self respect, and its even more credit worthy when you love(d) the person you are standing up to. Now she gets to watch your life from the sidelines. The happier, and more content you are, especially if you find a partner worthy of you, the greater the consequence to her being dumped. Do you have mutual friends able to report to her how awesome your doing?

lordmayhem · 01-11-2012, 06:19 PM

This reminds me of one of the crazy things that cheaters say from another forum. The WS said to him after they got divorced: "This divorce is just a piece of paper! We can get remarried after my relationship with my boyfriend is over!"

chapparal · 01-11-2012, 07:01 PM

Have you started dating yet?

JustaJerk · 01-11-2012, 07:43 PM

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"This divorce is just a piece of paper! We can get remarried after my relationship with my boyfriend is over!"

Nice to know there are always options.

morituri · 01-11-2012, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by JustaJerk

Nice to know there are always options.

KanDo · 01-12-2012, 09:44 AM

I agree with the above posts: she is trying still to keep me as a backup. Texted me today:" Don't be mad at me"

REALLY!!!

and I have just begun the dating process. My cousin suggested on online dating site. Turns out I am Adonis ;-)

In a week I have arranged 4 first dates and a follow on dinner with a woman who appears to be just wonderful. Nothing serious; but, the ego boost has been nice

calif_hope · 01-12-2012, 10:03 AM

KanDo, time to enjoy life, a life free of drama.
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morituri · 01-12-2012, 11:13 AM

KanDo, consider replying with the following:

"I don't have the time to be mad, now that I've begun to date other women".

turnera · 01-13-2012, 12:11 AM

Please remember you are really not ready to date yet. You will end up hurting whomever you date.

warlock07 · 01-13-2012, 01:07 AM

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I know I deserve everything you might throw my way but I won't give up baby, I know you love and want to see me and I'll keep trying."

Its pathetic

morituri · 01-13-2012, 02:23 AM

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Originally Posted by turnera

Please remember you are really not ready to date yet. You will end up hurting whomever you date.

There is that danger but it can be avoided IF he is mindful of his boundaries.

Dates can be a way of meeting good, female friends.

always_hopefull · 01-14-2012, 03:35 PM

I'm feeling somewhat feisty this afternoon, add that to my slightly jaded outlook and part of me says you should text her "by mistake" something along the lines thanking a woman for going out on a date with you, stating what a wonderful time you had with her.

Before anyone crucifies me for this, I know it would lower ourselves to their level, but sometimes thoughts like that make me smile.

The day after dday I took my husbands 73' Challenger out for the weekend, he had taken my truck and I had no other vehicle. After hanging out with a gf for a few days I headed home. As I was driving down the I5 there was a hitchiker with a goat, yes a goat, on the side of the road. It made me smile all the way home thinking of that goat pooping and chewing on the back seat of his baby

Shaggy · 01-14-2012, 06:31 PM

KanDo

going back to the title of this thread - I now have an answer for you:

It means Freedom, a much better life, with much better women in it.