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KanDo · 05-03-2012, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by keko

Is she desperate for it or doing it just to piss you off even more?
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She needs the cash. Pretty sure it is that simple.

keko · 05-03-2012, 11:21 PM

I'm guessing her lover(s) dumped her?
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chapparal · 05-04-2012, 06:39 AM

Did you tell her lawyer she would have to forge your signature adn you would report her to the IRS?

BambooScot · 05-04-2012, 07:27 AM

Maybe she is behind on her legal bills so she needed to pay the lawyer???

donny64 · 05-06-2012, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by KanDo

Well, I gave the attorney the run down on the damage and informed him that I don't want her in the place again. Afraid she may have stolen a house key so I re-keyed the house again. (glad I decided to spend the money on a re-keying kit rather than a locksmith. Would have cost me 3 times as much!) Don't have her signed agreement yet.

Don't forget to change the code on the garage remote if you can. Check your computer for webwatcher or other keylogger again. Never let her in the house alone or alone with any of your things (computer, phone) again. Oh yeah, check your phone for spyware too.

Best of luck to you. You seem to have handled this whole thing brilliantly. This should be a sticky on the forum for when "nice guys" find their spouse cheating on how to not be a doormat.

KanDo · 05-07-2012, 02:38 AM

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Originally Posted by donny64

Don't forget to change the code on the garage remote if you can. Check your computer for webwatcher or other keylogger again. Never let her in the house alone or alone with any of your things (computer, phone) again. Oh yeah, check your phone for spyware too.

Best of luck to you. You seem to have handled this whole thing brilliantly. This should be a sticky on the forum for when "nice guys" find their spouse cheating on how to not be a doormat.

Thanks Donny. I took her code out of the garage system already

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Attorney says she can't legally cash the IRS check as it is made out to us both; but, stranger things have happened at banks. We did notify her and her attorney that I do not authorize her to cash it.

I am amazed that this process has taken so long. Can't wait for the final decree!

happyman64 · 05-23-2012, 08:30 PM

KanDo,

Any update? The final decree final yet?

Your WW leaving you alone finally?

HM64

KanDo · 05-23-2012, 08:40 PM

Not much to tell. She was not able to cash the IRS check

. Actually, she is vacationing and had the nerve to ask me for money for a yoga retreat!

Her attorney has not responded to my attorney's letter of earlier this month about our settlement. I will call my lawyer next week if I haven't heard anything more. Nothing new going on.

jh52 · 05-23-2012, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by KanDo

Not much to tell. She was not able to cash the IRS check

. Actually, she is vacationing and had the nerve to ask me for money for a yoga retreat!

Her attorney has not responded to my attorney's letter of earlier this month about our settlement. I will call my lawyer next week if I haven't heard anything more. Nothing new going on.

Unbelievable !!

happyman64 · 05-23-2012, 08:55 PM

Kando,

You should have sent her a $10 gift certificate from a local yogurt place.

With a note that said "Here is the money for that yogurt treat you asked for. Please enjoy it at my great expense."

Could not have asked for a better opportunity to say F U to your STBXW.

Keep moving forward Kando.

HM64