Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Hi! my name is ~Pit~.
Re: Chances of affair lasting
the statistics are overwelmingly against any possibility of a sustained/happy relationship. Literally almost impossible. Yes, they can last (again low pertentage) for years in some cases. BUt, they are far from happy and rife with negative undertones. Jealously, insecurity, more infidelity, emotional abuse on both sides, you name it. They are poisonous.
Because the odds are so stageringly against forming a lasting relationship as the result of infidelity and people know that (they have been told that through the process and still choose to persue it despite the wisdom.) The people that do have a "longer than average" or even marginal relationships with the AP are QUICK to point out to everyone, any success. They often jump at a chance to say "SEE" it can be done, or they paint the failing relationship as more fullfilling or happy than it really is... they want to prove people wrong and hold onto the part of the fantasy that is "romantic, soul mate, against all odds" crap......
It's more bullsh*t. I promise you. These relationhips are poisoned from the start. Wish you could see, feel and essentially witness what is really happening inside of these two people's heads/hearts/souls as it all happening. It is dark and disgusting much of the time.
You only see a tiny percentage and mostly what they allow you see about the truth of this union of sin. These are well accomlished liars as you know, and they have become just as good at lying to themselves and decieving themselves as they have the people around them.
From day 1, it's rotting from the inside out... and if you are able to get close to it... you can smell it.
read my signature, its a dead truth.
Last edited by Pit-of-my-stomach; 06-30-2011 at 01:21 PM.