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Old 06-14-2012, 05:15 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Guess who go walked out about an hour ago. :-)
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He deserves worse, but man, I imagine that feels good for you! Rock on brother!
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Old 06-14-2012, 08:23 PM   #47 (permalink)
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I might be missing the boat I was just wondering how your wife got involved with this idiot. If you don't feel like going back there please ignore me. I am just curious as to what happened.
Short version: they both started training at work on the same day. He had no car, so she started giving him rides home, left appropriate boundaries in the dust, and a few weeks later, he was doing her in a park.
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He deserves worse, but man, I imagine that feels good for you! Rock on brother!
It did indeed feel very good. It was all I could do to not grin like the frakkin Cheshire Cat the rest of the afternoon.
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Did he have a box of his belongings in hand?
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No box. Just a backpack.
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I might be missing the boat I was just wondering how your wife got involved with this idiot.
I was kinda wondering the same thing. Sound like she could have picked a better class of loser.
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You got him fired? Seriously? You the man!
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You got him fired? Seriously? You the man!
He got himself fired.

I just made sure his manager had the pertinent information.
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He got himself fired.
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Once in a while, there is justice!!
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You may try hiring a woman for the vacancy.
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I don't do the hiring, and there's already a class of 4-6 new hires scheduled to start training next week. All of 'em will be remote, working from home once training is done.
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