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Old 07-22-2011, 01:56 PM   #106 (permalink)
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Well of course it was her. She is a looney tune.

Block each and every # she calls you from. What other phones is she calling from? Does she have a job she calls you from?

This chick has issues. Is she on drugs? And I mean that very seriously. Is she? She does not sound mentally well.

Be careful.

You guys have already told her numerous times to back the hell off and she's still at it. I would seriously consider getting a protective order against her.
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Old 07-22-2011, 02:43 PM   #107 (permalink)
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She's not on drugs cuz she's got no job. gonna have to have H call and get all the ones we have so far blocked, and hope there's no more. I can get her for telecommunications harassment so far. Gonna b a busy weekend. Even my friend (doesn't know whole story) said she's crazy and watch out cuz she's gonna try something. In fact, when I got that first text this a.m., she said she bets me any money its her. Do I just ask the police how to go about getting that?
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Old 07-22-2011, 04:08 PM   #108 (permalink)
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Yeah the cops are the best source to ask about this stuff.
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Old 07-22-2011, 04:21 PM   #109 (permalink)
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Ok. Well thank u for your help and ur insight. Idk wut I would've done without u guys.
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Old 07-22-2011, 04:26 PM   #110 (permalink)
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Old 07-22-2011, 04:44 PM   #111 (permalink)
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Look into getting a restraining order
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Old 07-22-2011, 05:06 PM   #112 (permalink)
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In my state u can't without actually being physically hurt. Justice, huh?
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That's a hell of a story. I started on page 1 of this thread out of curiosity and couldn't stop. That OW is crazy - no doubt about it. People like that are hard to get rid of. In addition to the cops you may need to get an attorney involved, they can often move faster than the cops can through the courts which is where any order will have to come from. You and your H need to present a totally unified front against her. If she detects any weakness between the two of you she will try to exploit it and use it against one or both of you. If your H won't join you on that unified front, it's going to be extremely difficult to run her off.

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Old 07-22-2011, 06:04 PM   #114 (permalink)
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Well so far thank God he's just as sick of it as I am. I thought that if HE finally said it enough to her she would just quit. She called him again this afternoon to tell him she can't listen to country music anymore cause we got her listening to it and since she's not allowed over anymore, its just too hard to listen to. WHAT?! He told her he didn't care, goodbye. Yeah, this ones gonna be tough to say the least. I agree w/ u about a lawyer. Guess I'll just take one step @ a time. It'll b hard cuz she's not threatening. Wut a mess. Lol
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Old 07-25-2011, 04:31 PM   #115 (permalink)
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So I signed into all fb's @ my house to block crazy chick the other day. On her wall she says she thought she found her perfect man but turned out not to be so. One day she'll find someone. This was all on Friday, after I was finally able to get all the numbers blocked thru the phone company. Wonder if she was talking about my man? Lol. Had to share, thought that was funny.
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Old 07-25-2011, 04:35 PM   #116 (permalink)
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How about NOT f@cking around anymore... i.e.- not bringing a third party into a two-person marriage "smarty pants."
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Old 07-25-2011, 04:55 PM   #117 (permalink)
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Well yeah, we've already decided that. No need to b judgemental. Live and learn.
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Old 07-25-2011, 05:07 PM   #118 (permalink)
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Sorry... I'm mean no disrespect. I just wanted to get my point across, even if it was rather harsh.
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Old 07-25-2011, 06:02 PM   #119 (permalink)
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So I signed into all fb's @ my house to block crazy chick the other day. On her wall she says she thought she found her perfect man but turned out not to be so. One day she'll find someone. This was all on Friday, after I was finally able to get all the numbers blocked thru the phone company. Wonder if she was talking about my man? Lol. Had to share, thought that was funny.
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I hope you're right but that's one crazy chic. Keep your eyes open!!
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Old 07-26-2011, 11:11 AM   #120 (permalink)
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That's ok Bri. I just worry about being judged all the time. Harsh, but point taken. Lol
Sigma, I m DEFINITELY looking for stuff w/ this whacko. Just hope I can give up soon cuz she's lost interest.

Wut is it about other women trying to poach husbands? Geez!
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