So four months ago was D-day. I caught my wife cheating with a looser, who had me thrown in jail on d day for threatening him. Me and the wife have been slowly working out our problems, and i believe she has finally told all the truth. Her affair was an EA and PA that lasted for 3-4 months. She says they had sex about 8 times in my house, and he was over every time I was at work. I work with an ambulance, and during the affair I was on mandatory OT, working 72 hrs. with 72 hrs off.
During the affair we had our 10 year marriage anniversary, and that has added to how painful the affair really was.
So...now things are going better, but what is weird is, that my wife is now trying to hook me up with one of her married friends who's husband won't have sex with her. I'm not sure how to handle this, as I don't want to hurt another like I've been hurt. She is even offering up a threesome with her. The offer is appealing, as her friend is down for it, but like I said, I don't want him to hurt like me.
Also, this affair she says was more emotional than physical, but after this, I'm not sure. Is it common after an affair for your spouse to be more sexual? How often in an affair is sex more rewarding or better? She says I'm a better lover, and has no complaints, but before the affair, she would have never considered this. I don't think she'd tell the truth about how sexually charged the affair was, or if she was more satisfied with him than me. She says she's more sexual because she's no longer angry at me, and has let go of a lot.
So.... my friends, what is your take on all this???? What do I say or do???
This offer is very appealing to the male, sexual pig side of me!!!