08-03-2011, 09:33 AM
Join Date: Jun 2010
| | Re: Problem in my Relationship :/
If you are serious, that he is either totally committed to you or you will leave, then you need to enforce that ultimatum. The behavior you mention is all classic red flags for affairs.
He needs to give you access to his phone, Facebook, email, etc. You should know who he is talking to and who he is with. He will likely balk (again classic behavior) and tell you that you're being too controlling, etc.
If you need 100% proof, then get a voice-activated recorder and stash it under the seat of his car. You probably won't need to wait long until he incriminates himself.
Then bust him with your proof and kick him out.