08-10-2011, 03:24 PM
Join Date: Jul 2010
| | Re: Wife had one night stand and got pregnant while I was deployed to Iraq.
Montana, as a fellow veteran, there is one thing I can recommend for you that you have at your fingertips. The armed services provides a wide variety of assistance for those deployed. Counselors, religious leaders, etc. Some of them are the best in the country and there to help you. There is no shame what so ever in seeking them out. It is a resource for you there, now. Use it and use it well. There is a great possibility you can work through alot of this while there and be completely clear and level headed when you return for the true sit down.
I used these services when I was in and they really DID help, not only that but they were genuinely compassionate and concerned for my well being. Please consider these resources that are there for you.
Other than that, while there is outstanding recommendations on here from all of us, only you know your true self. Follow your gut so to say and do what you feel is truly right for you, and you alone.