08-08-2011, 11:06 AM
Join Date: Feb 2011
| | Re: He really is a cake eater
Originally Posted by lordmayhem
Please stop monitoring for your own sake so that you can detach from him and start to heal.
You can't detach if you are still snooping. I know the temptation. Also, I can imagine how good it would feel to know the OM or OW is being cheated on also. However, for you (and I) to completely heal, we need to truly "let them go." That includes monitoring their activities.