Re: Wife travels a lot, sex life has stalled, worried - help!
Now that you are going to file, when you have your face-to-face, stay composed. Thats normally good advice for any tense situation, but considering your wife's irrational behavior, its integral.
Who knows what she might throw at you? I'm thinking anything that could arise leading to things she could mention to a lawyer. Prepare for the worst case scenario and all that.
I did think that she'd come back upset, whether or not she'd confess. Now that she is blowing you off even when you know shes cheating, who knows what she is capable of.