Wife travels a lot, sex life has stalled, worried - help!

Entropy3000 · 08-21-2011, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by morituri

Silence speaks volumes. Keep your silence.

Shamwow · 08-21-2011, 07:15 PM

Let her think I'm camping...

I mean, how would she know? Not like she asked what I've got going on this weekend when we talked yesterday.

Shamwow · 08-21-2011, 07:20 PM

When I go do I leave my ring for effect? Or sell it?

morituri · 08-21-2011, 07:22 PM

Start packing faster. By now she'll start getting worried and just might pull another "I'm coming home on the next flight".

morituri · 08-21-2011, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Shamwow

When I go do I leave my ring for effect? Or sell it?

Leave it in plain sight.

Ticonderoga · 08-21-2011, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by morituri

Leave it in plain sight.

Yup, with a nice ribbon holding it to a bottle of bubbly.......maybe with a nice card saying something "sweet".

Ticonderoga · 08-21-2011, 07:34 PM

Shamwow - I have big pile of crap going on my life....your posts help me feel not alone with it all. Thx.

Stonewall · 08-21-2011, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Shamwow

When I go do I leave my ring for effect? Or sell it?

Got a dog in the area? Scoop his poop up on a plate and set the ring on top of it!

morituri · 08-21-2011, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Stonewall

Got a dog in the area? Scoop his poop up on a plate and set the ring on top of it!

It's very important to make sure its fresh.

Halien · 08-21-2011, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Shamwow

Text just now from her:

"Hello?"

Why not reply, "Did you think that I wouldn't be watching?" Then go dark.

Whip Morgan · 08-21-2011, 07:43 PM

Stone and Mori- that's quite evil. Well done gentlemen. Fitting for this instance!
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the guy · 08-21-2011, 07:53 PM

Stay dark, give her the " you didn't think I was watching" line when she starts to look for you next week. Then you can also give her the ring if you want.

Again a disappearing act of biblical proportion!!!!!!!!!

Entropy3000 · 08-21-2011, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Ticonderoga

Yup, with a nice ribbon holding it to a bottle of bubbly.......maybe with a nice card saying something "sweet".

And a condom.

The note says "What happened here, stays here."

8yearscheating · 08-21-2011, 08:05 PM

I'm just going to throw out one thing here. Everything you have as PROOF is circumstantial and if you were trying to convict in court for a crime you would lose. You are digging an awful deep whole based on circumstantial evidence. I hope for your sake, you are 100% correct or you will have slammed the door before even having talked to her face to face. You could be right, you could be very wrong. Based on your actions it's obvious it doesn't matter if you are wrong - you've convinced yourself and your done.

Whip Morgan · 08-21-2011, 08:10 PM

8yrs- you have a point, as did Seeking in an earlier post, about conjecture. I think it's too hard to chalk up the (possible) OM in a hotel next to the wife's as pure coincidence. Lots of red flags that Sham has shared with the board. I think it's more likely than not that in this case 2+2 = 4.
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