this is bad

I explained that although the letter is pretty good, it could be better. W used a translator tool and some of the word are not correct.

I said we'll change some and I'll give her some ideas on what should be written. W seems ok with the idea, at this time.

The challenge, will it be sent.

(Currently looking for the address. Hope to locate it soon. If I'm not able to, then I'll have to ask his family)

That will be the real test.

this is bad

At the present time. Things are going well. The revised letter was completed as promised. It is very clear as to what NC means. WW understands how important it is to send.

question for everyone...

do you think I should go as far as having the marriage settlement agreement completed? It would need to signed by the both of us. WW would need to get a L to review it and make sure it fair for the both of us. something WW and I could agree on.

at this time, she has done all i've asked for. Most of all NC. Seems remorseful. We spend lots of time together. At this point things look good. We feel the we can R. We both want to.

I will continue to be extremely vigilant. Unless it goes deep underground, I should be able to spot any contact. I've also made it clear if contact is made I have to know right away.


I think it maybe too much and not needed at this point. The agreement can always be submitted later. I don't want to make it seem that she has to be scared.. I want us to be together because we want and desire to be with each other. Not because she's afraid of the consequences.


your thoughts on my current thinking?
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Eli-Zor

The marriage settlement is to protect you it is also a clear message of consequences if she should stray. If you told her this was one of your requirements then do it , don't waver , your indecisiveness will be seen as a weakness to be exploited later.
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