Re: Divorce after cyber cheating ?
IMHO, you are waiting for the scary thought of being alone to go away, you are waiting for the anxity to go away, you are waiting for the anger to go away, you are waiting for the feeling that you tried evrything in your power to commit to your marriage vows.
Once you can do that then you can move on. Getting to a point were you feel confident, happy, and satisfied that you did everything you could to save this, then you can make the move for divorce, knowing there will be no regret and a feeling of freedom as if a wieght was lifted off you occures. Then your ready to leave.
I think leaving right now may make you feel like you are running away from something, when it should feel like you are running towards somethng.