2 years ago today...

AngryandUsed · 03-21-2012, 03:09 PM

buddy, I envy you!
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Beowulf · 03-21-2012, 06:10 PM

AR,

I never read your story in its entirety before. Must be because I hate miniseries'. Kidding.

While our stories have much different events one thing they share is that we both did what we had to in order to achieve real reconciliation without having access to sites like TAM or some of the books out there now. That's one of the things I find interesting is how some can trudge through and do things relatively correctly and yet others can receive proper advice and muck it up anyway.

I'm glad things are still going well for you and your W. The 99% comment was really perfect btw.

Almostrecovered · 03-21-2012, 06:20 PM

dammit I'm making this into a book

(beer bravado, don't take me seriously)

lovemylife26 · 03-29-2012, 03:46 PM

AR, I must say thank you for sharing your story. I cried in a good way, it was very touching.
BTW reading your story I did figure out what you were talking about FB now. I haven't snapped yet but almost there to do it, more for clouser, if that makes sense. And I plan on telling him that I'm going to do this as we have been so opened about everything.

Mavash. · 04-24-2012, 05:12 PM

AR upon recommendation of a friend I read your story and it was very touching. While infidelity wasn't part of my bad marriage equation the trauma that follows is similar. I got a lot out of your story because while I didn't cheat I was the one that caused hurt to my husband and sometimes I forget how deep those wounds go. He doesn't share that with me but I see evidence that it's there. We are healing but it's a slow process.

Anyway just letting you know that there is purpose behind you putting this out there for people like me to read.

Thank you.

Almostrecovered · 04-25-2012, 07:03 AM

many thanks for the kind words

lovelygirl · 04-25-2012, 05:41 PM

I read your story within 2 nights [because it was a bit long lol]

I was impressed by the way you had described it.
I loved all the details you included, all what you went through and how you felt... everything touched me!

You have been very strong though. I don't know if I could handle it if I were you.

Thanx for sharing it and it's good to hear that you and her are on good terms again!

lovelygirl · 04-25-2012, 05:41 PM

I read your story within 2 nights [because it was a bit long lol]

I was impressed by the way you had described it.
I loved all the details you included, all what you went through and how you felt... everything touched me!

You have been very strong though. I don't know if I could handle it if I were you.

Thanx for sharing it and it's good to hear that you and her are on good terms again!

Almostrecovered · 04-26-2012, 06:46 AM

so nice you said it twice

lovelygirl · 04-26-2012, 06:52 AM

haha.
oops double post! :P

happymrs · 05-01-2012, 03:58 PM

Thank you for sharing your story, I'm glad it ended well.
I have a long marriage, which recently has kicked into high gear, things are better than they've ever been, more in love, etc. Recently my husband and I have each worked to improve ourselves and made great strides. I've been nervous that other women would take notice of him, and he's scoffed at the notion...until this past weekend when he had a woman come on to him(she didn't know I was in the car). I know human is human and poor judgement can take over, and I've seen too much infidelity around me with friends, the hurt and pain. I don't want that. Thanks for the information. I'm opening my eyes a little more. I'm going to have to be a bit proactive...but not sure exactly how.

Almostrecovered · 05-01-2012, 04:14 PM

Start with talking about boundaries and what each other finds to be appropriate, be specific

ArabianKnight · 05-01-2012, 06:41 PM

Just read your story.
- I feel sorry for your mother may god give her the peace she didnt have.
- you crtisized your mother for trying to get back to your father and here you are doing the same. your wife lied then lied then lied and made you look like crazy or its in your head, even she graped your head many times and looked you in eyes and still said lies.
- may be and I say may you didnt get the full story from the whole thing.
- may be and just may be she regret and hate that you found out
- dont give no credit to her for whatever she did to fix marriage, when you buy a house with broken foundation it will always have crack or marks of the broken foundation even if you fix it.
- the reason she defended you or defended her marriage because she didnt have an emotional affair, she only wanted the physical part of it by tell her self its ok since she never had it with others before and may be comparing her number to yours.
- is she going to cheat in future, Ummmmm May be there is a great chance.
- women can make any creature on earth believe what ever he likes by manipulating and crying and some tears here and there and act all nice and sweet.
- Lets imagine just imagine that this week your wife traveling in airplane and she survive a crash on an island by herself and for some stupid reason the other man or may be different man was living in that island also. with some drinks and smokes, do you think your wife would cheat on you?

- lets assume you get sick or your bipolar came back... later i will continue

Almostrecovered · 05-01-2012, 06:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ArabianKnight

later i will continue

please don't

pidge70 · 05-01-2012, 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ArabianKnight

Just read your story.
- I feel sorry for your mother may god give her the peace she didnt have.
- you crtisized your mother for trying to get back to your father and here you are doing the same. your wife lied then lied then lied and made you look like crazy or its in your head, even she graped your head many times and looked you in eyes and still said lies.
- may be and I say may you didnt get the full story from the whole thing.
- may be and just may be she regret and hate that you found out
- dont give no credit to her for whatever she did to fix marriage, when you buy a house with broken foundation it will always have crack or marks of the broken foundation even if you fix it.
- the reason she defended you or defended her marriage because she didnt have an emotional affair, she only wanted the physical part of it by tell her self its ok since she never had it with others before and may be comparing her number to yours.
- is she going to cheat in future, Ummmmm May be there is a great chance.
- women can make any creature on earth believe what ever he likes by manipulating and crying and some tears here and there and act all nice and sweet.
- Lets imagine just imagine that this week your wife traveling in airplane and she survive a crash on an island by herself and for some stupid reason the other man or may be different man was living in that island also. with some drinks and smokes, do you think your wife would cheat on you?

- lets assume you get sick or your bipolar came back... later i will continue

Why would you even post such tripe when AR and his wife are doing so well?
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