Post coitus I did the last dumb thing in regards to uncovering her affair. (well really dumb that is) -I apologized for snooping and promised I would stop and trust her
not only did I apologize, I actually pulled out the VAR that I purchased earlier that day from Staples and said I was ashamed I was going to use it.
I was truly in a state of denial and she worked it to her advantage.
I went off to bed, she said she would be up in a few minutes as she had to finish something up for school. (I learned two days later she was having a facebook chat with him about how they just dodged a bullet.)
Fortunately for me my mistake wouldn't matter for long.
The next day at work in the morning I just got off the phone with the wife as she said she had to get to her physical therapy appointment. So, after hanging up I went to log onto facebook to see what stupid new gifts there were in Mafia Wars. I had forgotten that I still was logged in as my wife (since i had been checking out OM the day before).
And there it was
Back then, facebook had a glitch.
and what it wonderful glitch it was for me!!
You could log into the same account from another computer at the same time. And if one user was having a chat- you could witness it live.
There it was- the two of them chatting and it was obvious she was chatting while she was talking with me-
Her-Okay, I'm off the phone now
Him- What time are you back from your PT appt?
Her- 10am, I only have 2 more appointments but I'll tell Almostrecovered that I have 6 more left so we can keep up the charade
Her: With AR getting edgy I think we should just watch a movie or something since he still could be hiding that recorder.
Him: Yeah, my wife seems to be on edge as well, could just be pregnancy nerves.
Her- gotta go
him: okay on movie, maybe just a quickie instead
at that point the chat went blank as she must've deleted the record.
I lost it
I was back to reacting again
but this time I had the smoking gun
I called home- no answer
I called her cell- she answered almost angrily-
Her- "What?! Why are you calling the home line, I told you I am on my way to PT?! I'm trying to get out the door, I am late!"
me- "Wow, you are something! You sat there and looked me straight in the eye and lied! So you only have 2 more appointments, eh?"
There was some silence and when she answered her tone turned snide as if she was proud
her- "yeah well"
What I said next I can't recall, but I started on a tirade until I heard the phone click.
I thought to myself, "That f***ing ***** just hung up on me!"
After 2 failed attempts at reaching her (I thought she turned her phone off as voice mail picked up on one ring) I immediately went to the number I had written down and called the OM.