Rough holidays guys. Very rough. Heart breaking ****. She's been cold and such. But we have started talking.
: I think you pretty much nailed it... I don't want to repost in the poly thread... or maybe a modification of this. But in reality - I don't have much time to do so. (Next post)
I'm learning the acronyms. AP (Another Person) WS (wayward Side?) BS = ???
: Excellent point. Makes sense, but when logic comes into play (when it comes to LOVE, you can throw logic out the window. Hell, I still love my wife).
: My wife is small, I have some kinks (BDSM) that have little to do with this affair - but lets say, I'm not willing to hurt her. By all means, I've never hit a woman in anger or to prove myself. I'm against violence. What is wimpy to her sexually (read next response below) but here is what HE is, that I am not.
1 - I am a social drinker. He is a 21yr old alcoholic. He drink about 1L bottle of booze a night. Wife is confirmed, has a drinking problem.
2 - I am responsible for our home, child, bills, car, insurance, doc. appointments, shopping for food, etc. Wimpy only works to buy booze. In the 6 months that I've known him, I see his body falling apart. I doubt he'll live another 5 years, don't care. Crack and meth or whatever is his future. He's got nothing else.
3 - Music. They like alot of music that I call cRAP. Wife and I do like a lot of music that is not cRAP... but I can only stand so much.
@Plan 9 from OS
: Bingo! Jackhammer. Really, that's all he does... and of course, unlike us older guys - he can do it for quite a bit longer. Oral sex, nope. Anything else, not really. Overall, its the uncontrolled drinking. He's just a ****ing machine, he should become a gigolo to make money.