You asked question "do I put him in prison for the drugs?" Really a hard one my friend.
You already have a lot of problems and if you do this or try this you can create even more.
Remember- If you go for Posom your ex wife might go with him too.
It is your decision but if I was in your shoes I would only report him if I saw trouble for my son.
What my ex-wife do and with whom is not my problem anymore. I would be happy to get rid of her.
About this article - If I understand it corectly ,it is about cheating spouses and they decision to leave their partner,and options for yes or no.
Well I know I would never cheat,because I know pain from it. To leave or not- I wold give her an easy answer - I leave because I dont want to have anything with cheaters.
1 - Yeah, he helped ruin my life... and to report him would likely involve 2 other people - collateral damage. But the ONLY think stopping me from doing this is;
2 - His mother. Why? Because she contacted me with important information which was helpful and that she doesn't support the relationship. He would get 10 years easy, as will the others.
3 - As you say, it makes things even more complicated - it'll make the ex-wife hate me more - for sending this 21yr old loser to prison, rather than having her learn she screwed up.
4 - the Article, is for the cheater (usually its WOMEN who leave / men who stay). To consider keeping the affair (fantasy) and moving in with their dream boat then to discover - they are now with a bigger loser. My wife is being stupid. When family and friends see this guy on FB, etc? They are like "ewww what? him?"
She's not seeing the guy for what he really is... oh well.
Unless she can pull money out of her butt, she has no money for a lawyer. With what I presented to the judge in my affidavit. At the avg price of $300 per hour, she would need about $2~5000 retainer fee and budget out about $20,000. I have only presented half of my evidence and stories.
She makes $9.50 an hour before taxes. About $1100 after taxes. After rent for her "new" place + food + booze money + utilities = $-200 in the hole. And that is with the two of them. combining their money. If Judge orders child support during trial, then she'll be short another $225~250 a month.
She has nothing left to pay for any lawyer. She has no friends or family to borrow the money from. I doubt a lawyer would want her case. I have her hospital records, too.
I don't count anything out. But I'd be surprised to hear a response from "her" lawyer.