Originally Posted by andylee
LucyinSC and others.
Klauss has called several times but hasn't gotten past the answering machine. I honestly believe She will not see him again. I see now it was a phase in her life that she needed to explore and find the limit. Believe me if you knew what happened that weekend and could have see her return as I did - you would also be convinced that there would be no further contact.
She does seem like a changed woman. You all probably don't understand but there is a deep appreciation I sense from her for letting this play out. And one that silently says it won't hapen again.
I am absolutely thrilled and delighted that you have demonstrated your unconditional love to your wife by fully supporting her. This is a secret between you and your wife, and you will together work through all the issues; and your children will never know about it.
I was shocked that others wanted you to smash your marriage, and take children off their biological mother. You were right to want to avoid the years of stress and confusion that your children would suffer from having their mother taken from them.
Divorce is never a solution. It hurts children BIG TIME.
Your wife will provide you with more details as she slowly heals inside from the experience. I can see how she was slowly sucked in to B and D and all her lovers from her nights out with her female friends. I hope that some of her friends are not also locked into the lifestyle and unable to break free (like she has).
It is possible that some of the films may surface, but I know that you and your wife can work through any issues regarding that.
It might be helpful to have someone find out more about Kraus, so you can direct the Police to him if he tries to blackmail your wife into returning to his harem.
I wish you and your wife every success in growing your marriage even stronger. She may find that she still wants an occasional lover, but she can be more choosy in the future.