09-01-2011, 04:20 PM
Join Date: Jun 2011
| | husband ended affair-now what
My husband ended his 4week affair yesterday. Last night he seemed very down and kind of distant. He said he thinks we both need a couple weeks or so of just letting things die down, being together, being close and staying busy. He wanted to end the affair (I didn't give ultimatum or neither did other woman) but he said it is still hard because he has feelings for her. Also he is used to texting her a million times a day. Can someone please tell me if this is normal? I feel like it's an addict going thru withdrawals. Obviously I am happy about his choice, but I am scared. I know it was just yesterday. But I need some insight/advice on what to anticipate immediately after the affair stops. We have a marriage counselor. But obviously haven't been to him since the affair ended. Thank you.