As far as me getting pregnant with the OM, I'm on the birth control. I admit, no protection but he never, well did his thing inside me.
Do you know what STDs are? Do you know what Aids is? Are you 100% sure the OM is clean? If he's sleeping with you a married woman what makes you think he's not sleeping with others.
He never came inside of you but diseases doesn't need him to cum for you to get them. Very selfish of you IMO, and please don't have kids YOU ARE NOT READY AT ALL.
Like someone says maybe one day you will be a great mom, but you will not be one right now. Or maybe your husband and the OM are just sperm donors for you since all you really care about is wanting to have children.
That seems to be your major focus in life, I want to have kids and be a mom. Not I want my husband and I to have kids and be a great family. You're probably gonna get mad because you're still too young and immature but you're still a kid who has no idea what she really wants aside from the fact that you want to have kids no matter what.
So being a great mom is showing your kid that you can have sex with another man that is not your husband? Being a great mom is sleeping over at other peoples houses and not coming back home at all until the next day? Being a great mom is saying you love someone but don't really feel guilty that you cheated on them. If that's the case then you're mom of the year material.
Sorry to be harsh but being a cheater myself I give little to no slack to cheaters at all who show no remorse for what they do. I came to this site to see how much I have hurt my wife, to try and see the pain I have caused her and how much she had to put up with.
Maybe you should think about why you're really here.