09-15-2011, 06:46 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: Husband will not admit it's an EA
I went through the same thing you did about 2 years ago...I didn't notice it at the time, but looking back my H seemed distant and was very argumentative...he was having a long distance EA with a woman..she was like a tech support for his co. They were both on a photo sharing site that I didn't know about, constantly texting and calling and emailing...when it finally dawned on me what was going on I was furious...we ended up separating because of her...he also figured out she was a psycho..she would also call me and hang up, she would call him and threaten to kill herself, etc. And, of course, the reason he did it was because I wasn't open enough for him, I never talked to him..maybe part of it was because everytime I would say something, he would accuse me of things, etc.
We finally got things straightened out, for the most part, he had some counseling done for his anger management issues..We still have some bumpy patches every now and then but I think we understand each other better now.
Good luck to you.I hope your H finally sees the light.