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Old 09-17-2011, 03:45 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I'm not really a big believer in Karma per se but I am a great believer that lowlifes eventually push their self destruct button one time to many. Sadly they often leave shattered lives behind in their wake.
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I'm not really a big believer in Karma per se but I am a great believer that lowlifes eventually push their self destruct button one time to many. Sadly they often leave shattered lives behind in their wake.
Most people only believe in Karma when the bus shows up at the other guy's door step.
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Old 09-17-2011, 04:54 PM   #19 (permalink)
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How unfortunate. I would have hoped for bone cancer, rabies, brain eating amoebas and 4th degree burns, at the same time, at the least.

Well one can hope it was long and slow and involved power tools. So there's that.

Back in the old country, a man found with a petrol soaked burning tire round his neck was often guilty of sticking his **** in the wrong orifice.
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As much as I hate the OW in my situation, if something horrible happened to her I would find no solace in that.
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I would consider it an act of purification on the part of the universe. Why should perfectly good planetary resources be wasted on such a piece of s**t? They don't change either,entitled ones like that just go right on hurting others.
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How unfortunate. I would have hoped for bone cancer, rabies, brain eating amoebas and 4th degree burns, at the same time, at the least.

Well one can hope it was long and slow and involved power tools. So there's that.

Back in the old country, a man found with a petrol soaked burning tire round his neck was often guilty of sticking his **** in the wrong orifice.
Yeah! I thought that thread the other day, "Law is not Justice" was pretty ridiculous, with the OP taking the stance that cheaters should be thrown in jail as criminals because somebody bwoke his widdle heart.

Didn't think he was one of the moderates here. I know the popular position is that the BS is a big 'ole victim, didn't do anything wrong, but it sure is interesting to get insight through a comment as to why someone might have been cheated on.
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what goes around comes around he mostly a confronting husband like Richard Gere in unfaithful
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Old 09-17-2011, 06:27 PM   #23 (permalink)
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I would consider it an act of purification on the part of the universe. Why should perfectly good planetary resources be wasted on such a piece of s**t? They don't change either,entitled ones like that just go right on hurting others.

Holding on to my hate for her just means she has a hold on me so to speak. She does not deserve a place in my head and she doesn't have it. For me to have inner peace I cannot wish ill on her or anyone who has wronged me. That kind of thinking is partially what screwed me up to begin with.
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Old 09-17-2011, 08:15 PM   #24 (permalink)
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I just received a telephone call from a mutual friend of my ex-wife and mine, telling me that they found the OM murdered in his apartment last night. I asked her if my ex-wife has gotten wind of the news yet, and she said not to her knowledge. She also said that she wasn't going to tell her because of my ex-wife's recent mental breakdown that got her institutionalized for a few weeks in a psychiatric hospital.

While I take no joy in someone being murdered, not even the OM, I guess the obvious answer is that he fu*ked with the wrong people for the very last time. This time the karma bus came with a killer riding as one of its passengers.


I will feel the joy for you. I have not guilt over that.
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Well Joe so far the police have not contacted me. I suspect that there were plenty of lowlifes who wanted nothing more than 'terminate with extreme prejudice' him. Thankfully it appears he was alone when he was murdered. It would have been tragic if there had been a woman with him - like my ex-wife - at the time the killer(s) went to pay him a visit and she also would have been killed to remove any possible witness that could identify him(them).

You know what's ironic? I was watching the opening scene of 'Watchmen' when I received the call from mutual friend of my ex-wife and mine. It was the scene in which Adrian Veidt fights with and murders Edward Blake by throwing him out of his high rise apartment building and on to the street below. Now I can't get Nat King Cole's "Unforgettable" out of my head.
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It seems sick for people to be rejoicing over someone being murdered. Mori...that's quite a story. Awful.
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Jelly while it may not be right or even politically correct to rejoice in a lowlife's death, to quote Dr Manhattan's response to Adrian Veidt question in the final scene of Watchmen "Without condemning or condoning, I understand".

In the meantime I'm going to see if I can purge Nat King Cole's beautiful song "Unforgettable", from my head by playing it ad nauseum.
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Jelly while it may not be right or even politically correct to rejoice in a lowlife's death, to quote Dr Manhattan's response to Adrian Veidt question in the final scene of Watchmen "Without condemning or condoning, I understand".

In the meantime I'm going to see if I can purge Nat King Cole's beautiful song "Unforgettable", from my head by playing it ad nauseum.
Throw some Megadeth in... that will get rid of it.
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I don't believe in karma. Well, except my ex girlfriend. Her name was Karma. That was definitely some bad Karma.
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I don't believe in karma. Well, except my ex girlfriend. Her name was Karma. That was definitely some bad Karma.
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