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#1 ·
I just received a telephone call from a mutual friend of my ex-wife and mine, telling me that they found the OM murdered in his apartment last night. I asked her if my ex-wife has gotten wind of the news yet, and she said not to her knowledge. She also said that she wasn't going to tell her because of my ex-wife's recent mental breakdown that got her institutionalized for a few weeks in a psychiatric hospital.

While I take no joy in someone being murdered, not even the OM, I guess the obvious answer is that he fu*ked with the wrong people for the very last time. This time the karma bus came with a killer riding as one of its passengers.
 
#41 ·
The jerk my wife cheated with died at age 50 just before I found out who he was.

He was not murdered, but his lousy lifestyle led to his early death.

If I knew where that cretin's rotting carcass is buried I'd piss on his grave.

Why?

To grease his way to Hell.
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#43 ·
:rofl:

…. and please people, do not host fundraising car washes at the corner gas stations or convenience stores in my name for funeral expenses.

Always seems kind of ironic to me when reports in the local news are of “So-n-So” who was murdered as direct result to the bottom dwelling lifestyle they chose to live and two days later their associated low life friends are standing on the corner holding a sign with “So-n-So” name on it and “Car Wash” to raise funds for funeral expenses.
 
#44 ·
My WW last OM end back in jail, now that was a reason to rejoyce. Granted his adult daughter and even his parants are sad. The point is this guy made some poor choices.

It seems M- exwife OM also made some bad choices and with that it cost him his life. It may have been a random act , but something tells me it wasn't and with that then maybe justice was served.
 
#45 ·
This is not the first time that a murder has hit close to home. Back when I was 20 years old, I took a part time job at a men's clothing store to help with college book expenses. On my first day at work, one of the girls who worked as a cashier told me how the previous kid who did my job had been arrested on the premises and charged with murder. I really wasn't that much interested in her story so I forgot about it. Then one day, many months after she had told me the story, I was reading the newspaper and I happened to come on to a full one page article of the story detailing the gruesome details of the murder, the victims and the murderers. To make a long story short, the kid who had the job before I came on the scene, got together with his best friend, planned and carried out the murder of his father and his step-mother. I was blown away at this Greek like tragedy. It's been 32 years since that happened, but I will remember it for the rest of my life.
 
#50 ·
This was like 40 years ago, and I was 10 years old. I had a friend just across the street from my house. I wasn't that close to him as he was one year older than I was, but we hung around time to time. His dad worked for government and was a tall, handsome gentleman but was very stoic and quiet. So much so that even at such young age, I felt it must be very boring living with dad like him. His mom was SAHM and seems always serving his and family's needs. She hardly talked either.

Well, one day I overhead people talking about how his mom got found to be sleeping with another man every weekend for some time then. People seemed shocked. A couple days later, walking back home from school, I saw a group of women, 4-5, surrounding her, kicking and pulling her hair and so on. I was scared and just passed them to come home. It was a small town and there were other people witnessing this. Well, the next day morning, I heard from my parents that she died in sleep. Apparantely, she came home that afternoon, went to bed and never woke up.

The whole town hushed it down and nobody seemed to talk about the incident afterwards. It was weird. The family soon moved out of the town and we never heard about them afterwards. Looking back, I don't think even there was even any legal consequences to those women who did that, as if the whole town kept it down as a town secret. The image still haunts me time to time as she was trying to crawl back home while taking the beatings from those women.
 
#56 ·
Trust me. There are people on this earth who desperately need killing. Each breath they draw is an insult to humanity. Serial rapists, serial murderers, terrorists, and child molesters spring to mind. Each one of these who assumes room temperature makes the world a better place and presents an occasion for all decent people to rejoice.
 
#64 ·
Jelly,

A few minutes ago I got word from a friend who is a police detective regarding OM's death. Suffice it to say that he couldn't provide me with any details without getting himself or me into trouble, but he did tell me that his death was pretty gruesome.
 
#66 ·
You honestly don't want things to be "fair". If things were fair, you would have to watch your husband/wife deteriorate with cancer like others have. If things were fair, you would have to lose your husband/wife in a plane crash/car wreck/freak accident like others have. If things were fair, you would have gotten a disease from your wayward spouse like others have. If things were fair, you would have your spouse leave you for your brother/uncle/dad like others have.

Let's be truthful. You don't really want things to fair, because if it was, ever awful thing that has ever happened to someone would happen to you. That would be fair, right????
 
#69 ·
Whether adultary is in the same league with rape/murder/terrorism, depends entirely on one's culture. I wouldn't likely murder my wife's lover (if she had one), not because I think it would be immoral to do so but because there would be no advantage to it. She owes me loyalty, he does not. Besides, murdering him wouldn't make her any more trustworthy. If it weren't him, it would be someone else.
One who commits murder only takes someone's life. The victim's problems are over. An adulterer, takes peoples' past, present, and future plans and dreams, leaving others with the tough work of cleaning up their mess. Murderers rarely reoffend but adulterers almost always do. I could make a pretty strong argument that adulterers deserve a headshot more than a murderer.
 
#70 ·
I could make a pretty strong argument that adulterers deserve a headshot more than a murderer.
I don't know about "more than" a murderer, but there is a reason adultery was grounds for stoning in the old testament days. If the Bible gave stoning as the sentence for adultery, then it is a pretty serious crime. This current culture makes it look like a petty shoplifting of a piece of candy.

Mori, I hope you do have a rock-solid alibi. I know for sure, I would be a suspect if anything ever happened to OM. I'm just glad he lives so far away.
 
#71 ·
It is so incredibly saddening and sickening to read the posters that rejoice or are apathetic to a murder! It is disheartening to see such cold heartless venom uttered from mouths, such contemptous thoughts! To read of karmic buses... is there no empathy are you not human??

Was it justice.. perhaps... but there is no information from the OP as to the circumstances nor situation.

Barely a shred of compassion....

Just rash harsh judgement from most... all I see is people throwing stones who live in glass houses! I can't imagine anyone condemning another when they refuse to look at themselves... are you so pure and perfect???

Unbelievable - I am flabbergasted! You call yourself decent??? If you suggest people 'need' killing then pick up your sword and have at it instead of boasting to a computer screen. See how far you get... will you be praised as a hero??? How can you talk of humanity??!! If you wish to live a life with "an eye for an eye" mentality then retribution shall be forever.. everyone will be blind! Are you so perfect? Have you not the capacity to forgive??

Marksaysay - I'm with you....

It truly is a sad day...
 
#73 ·
If you suggest people 'need' killing then pick up your sword and have at it instead of boasting to a computer screen. See how far you get... will you be praised as a hero??? How can you talk of humanity??!! If you wish to live a life with "an eye for an eye" mentality then retribution shall be forever.. everyone will be blind!
I don't think anyone is saying to go pick up a sword and kill all adulterers. I know I'm not. I have had to, as I'm sure many others here have, struggle with the urge to cause physical harm to OM. It's just not worth it. I think what most are saying is that this OM was playing with fire. Sometimes, when you play with fire, you get burned.

I agree with the other poster. Our military is not trained to give out flowers. Neither are our police officers. I do not celebrate the death of any human being. Having been trained to kill, I still have a deep respect for human life. Heck, I am a hunter and take time to reflect on the taking of a life of a deer each time I kill one.
 
#72 ·
Of course some people need killing! I wasn't sent to Iraq twice to distribute posies. We don't send the SWAT team out to hold hands and sing campfire songs. There are some honestly really bad jokers in this world. I don't know if this adulterer deserved what he received or not. I do know that he realized homicide was at least a potential consequence of his actions and he proceeded anyway.
 
#74 ·
If people need to be killed... as you say... in Iraq, or any war zone... the collateral damage of the deaths of 10's if not 100's of thousands is justifiable?? I know you were called to duty and serving your country.. for which I honor you... in this case... I disagree with the war.. not you.

As for the SWAT team... they do NOT do out with the intention of murdering or killing!!! That is ludacris! That, like any police force, to enforce the ultimate physical harm is there UTMOST LAST RESORT!

I can understand your pain... for now I know where it comes from... my prayers for you to find inner peace and become whole again... no person comes back from war without deep scars to be healed... peace be with you.
 
#76 ·
It's only ludacris in your world. What a SWAT team intends to do depends on the circumstances. There is a time for healing and a time for killing. I don't enjoy it but I recognize it as a sad and necessary fact of life. Doesn't matter whether you approve of this or any other war. I work for you. You sent me. You sent me to kill people. You're free because others have killed and because others are ready to kill in your name. That is the price of your safety and the price of your freedom. If you call the police to your house, they won't show up with smores and if they have to take a life, it isn't a personal vendeta but society (you included) pulling the trigger. Dig around a few mass graves of infants. Work a few homicide cases or child rape cases. Collect the bodies of decapitated American soldiers. Maybe you won't be so shocked that others have to do what needs to be done. Yea, I've taken out some trash for you and I have zero problems reporting as much when I stand before the Almighty.
 
#78 ·
Just watching everyone go back and forth on this morality issue...

I think everyone agrees that an affair partner is skum. After all, this is a forum filled with BS and WS who most likely chose to recover their marriage or simply move on with their lives without lingering hurt.

But also I seriously doubt anyone here would kill an AP. Would we smile if someone else did...probably 90% of us would. But none of us are out there doing these things because we know we do not have the right to.
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#79 ·
Of course not! Then again, knowing how my wife feels about sex, if I saw her having sex with some guy, I would have to naturally assume she was being violently raped and any decent husband would take appropriate action. In my shaken state and through my tears, my aim might falter and she might accidently get hit, too. Naturally, I would feel awful about it, but what can ya do?
 
#86 ·
My house can get pretty dark and with all the screaming, it's perfectly understandable how someone might make a mistake. He was holding a short, blunt object and in the shadows, it looked like the barrel of a very small revolver. I feared for my wife's safety and for my own. Crap happens. Profuse apologies to all concerned.
 
#91 ·
An evil maniac who caused the murder of over 6 million Jews and nearly destroyed his country. A 20 cent rifle round between his evil eyes would have prevented much suffering. As far as Saddam, if you think he was the only evil character in Iraq, you should have seen the videos I helped take out of his sons' palaces. God can discuss their souls. Down here, they were both just mass murdering wastes of DNA. My regret is that they both were allowed to live far too long.
 
#95 ·
Would you have preferred 100,000 U.S soldiers dying trying to take Tokyo? Long before the bombs were dropped, the Japanese proved their unwillingness to surrender, even when resistance was futile. That was about 70 years ago and nobody has had to worry about any Japanese attacks since. Extreme? Perhaps. 100 Effective? Absolutely.
As far as Stalin, Mao, etc, I concede that Communism and all other Leftist manifestations involve extremely large body counts. Again, well aimed shots between the eyes would have saved many innocent people. I would think Leftist war protesters in America would have been thrilled to see the mass slaughter in Cambodia that followed our withdrawal from Vietnam. They helped make it happen.
 
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