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Was this waste of skin adding something to the world by his presence? If not, maybe he can contribute by feeding a few worms and blow flies. We all should give a little something back.

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As much as it pleases all the BS's to see something like, there is never a reason to rejoice in the misfortune of another. I feel for his family. As much as we may not like who he was, show a litttle compassion.
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As much as it pleases all the BS's to see something like, there is never a reason to rejoice in the misfortune of another. I feel for his family. As much as we may not like who he was, show a litttle compassion.
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This was like 40 years ago, and I was 10 years old. I had a friend just across the street from my house. I wasn't that close to him as he was one year older than I was, but we hung around time to time. His dad worked for government and was a tall, handsome gentleman but was very stoic and quiet. So much so that even at such young age, I felt it must be very boring living with dad like him. His mom was SAHM and seems always serving his and family's needs. She hardly talked either.

Well, one day I overhead people talking about how his mom got found to be sleeping with another man every weekend for some time then. People seemed shocked. A couple days later, walking back home from school, I saw a group of women, 4-5, surrounding her, kicking and pulling her hair and so on. I was scared and just passed them to come home. It was a small town and there were other people witnessing this. Well, the next day morning, I heard from my parents that she died in sleep. Apparantely, she came home that afternoon, went to bed and never woke up.

The whole town hushed it down and nobody seemed to talk about the incident afterwards. It was weird. The family soon moved out of the town and we never heard about them afterwards. Looking back, I don't think even there was even any legal consequences to those women who did that, as if the whole town kept it down as a town secret. The image still haunts me time to time as she was trying to crawl back home while taking the beatings from those women.
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This was like 40 years ago, and I was 10 years old. I had a friend just across the street from my house. I wasn't that close to him as he was one year older than I was, but we hung around time to time. His dad worked for government and was a tall, handsome gentleman but was very stoic and quiet. So much so that even at such young age, I felt it must be very boring living with dad like him. His mom was SAHM and seems always serving his and family's needs. She hardly talked either.

Well, one day I overhead people talking about how his mom got found to be sleeping with another man every weekend for some time then. People seemed shocked. A couple days later, walking back home from school, I saw a group of women, 4-5, surrounding her, kicking and pulling her hair and so on. I was scared and just passed them to come home. It was a small town and there were other people witnessing this. Well, the next day morning, I heard from my parents that she died in sleep. Apparantely, she came home that afternoon, went to bed and never woke up.

The whole town hushed it down and nobody seemed to talk about the incident afterwards. It was weird. The family soon moved out of the town and we never heard about them afterwards. Looking back, I don't think even there was even any legal consequences to those women who did that, as if the whole town kept it down as a town secret. The image still haunts me time to time as she was trying to crawl back home while taking the beatings from those women.
it reminds me with a scene in movie Malena Monica Bellucci treated the same way by some women it was a really hard scene especially if the victim someone as hot as Monica
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As much as it pleases all the BS's to see something like, there is never a reason to rejoice in the misfortune of another. I feel for his family. As much as we may not like who he was, show a litttle compassion.
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they should show compassion first instead of fooling around with families

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they should show compassion first instead of fooling around with families

what goes around comes around
There's not much reasoning you can do with a deceased person. He made some mistakes as do many OM/OW but it does nothing to harp on their shortcomings when they're dead.
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There's not much reasoning you can do with a deceased person. He made some mistakes as do many OM/OW but it does nothing to harp on their shortcomings when they're dead.
Maybe not, but don't expect anyone who is hurt by a piece of S**t like this to be sad at their demise. Very seldom do people get what is coming to them, and when they do, it gratifies my sense of justice , and I reserve the right to feel that way. If this happened to the toxic garbage that went after my H, I would be relieved that she would never again be able to do this to another family.

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Trust me. There are people on this earth who desperately need killing. Each breath they draw is an insult to humanity. Serial rapists, serial murderers, terrorists, and child molesters spring to mind. Each one of these who assumes room temperature makes the world a better place and presents an occasion for all decent people to rejoice.
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Holding on to my hate for her just means she has a hold on me so to speak. She does not deserve a place in my head and she doesn't have it. For me to have inner peace I cannot wish ill on her or anyone who has wronged me. That kind of thinking is partially what screwed me up to begin with.
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Well I don't feel that way. She has no hold on me, but she does have a debt to pay for what she has done and I would very much like to know that it has been paid. She will go right on hurting others as long as there is no price to pay for her sense of entitlement. I am a lover of justice, I will not feel sad when it occurs. My "inner peace" comes from knowing that what go's around does, in fact come around at times.
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Well I don't feel that way. She has no hold on me, but she does have a debt to pay for what she has done and I would very much like to know that it has been paid. She will go right on hurting others as long as there is no price to pay for her sense of entitlement. I am a lover of justice, I will not feel sad when it occurs. My "inner peace" comes from knowing that what go's around does, in fact come around at times.

To be fair, she can't wreak havoc without a willing participant.
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Trust me. There are people on this earth who desperately need killing. Each breath they draw is an insult to humanity. Serial rapists, serial murderers, terrorists, and child molesters spring to mind. Each one of these who assumes room temperature makes the world a better place and presents an occasion for all decent people to rejoice.
The thing is, serial rapists, serial murderers, child molesters, terrorists and do not have willing participants they inflict pain on and lives they destroy.

The OM and OW participate in a betrayal in which the disloyal spouse willingly and intentionally wants to be a part of.
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The thing is, serial rapists, serial murderers, child molesters, terrorists and do not have willing participants in the pain they inflict and the destruction they wield and the lives they destroy.

The OM and OW participate in a betrayal in which the disloyal spouse willingly and intentionally wants to be a part of.
I must point out that oftentimes the victims to child molesters and rapists are indeed "willing" participants. They have been coaxed into being engaged into an act that devastate their lives later on. Statutory rape is an example. Willing or not willing, it is a rape because the minor is not considered to have the capacity to say no in their immature minds. Although legally over 18, you are expected to have the "mature" mind, in reality this is not so for various reasons. Who says once you turn 18, you all of a sudden turn into this balanced human being that can say yes and no properly in any circumstance?

Even late in years, some people are rather poorly equipped to protect their mind and body such as MW in a troubled marriage. If these women actively pursue to have A, then that is one thing, but in case of homewreckers, they smell these women out and target them by scheming and coaxing to the point they just cannot say no. And, the result is another marriage destroyed and kids lose their intact family, all for what? To satisfy their sexual needs? For an easy lay?

Do they realize the magnitude of what they've done? Do they care? Most decent people would be willing to die to protect their precious kids, family, their home. This is what they destroy for some cheap sex. So, why shouldn't they be compared to serial murderers, child molestors, rapists, and all other despicable crimiinals?
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