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I just received a telephone call from a mutual friend of my ex-wife and mine, telling me that they found the OM murdered in his apartment last night. I asked her if my ex-wife has gotten wind of the news yet, and she said not to her knowledge. She also said that she wasn't going to tell her because of my ex-wife's recent mental breakdown that got her institutionalized for a few weeks in a psychiatric hospital.

While I take no joy in someone being murdered, not even the OM, I guess the obvious answer is that he fu*ked with the wrong people for the very last time. This time the karma bus came with a killer riding as one of its passengers.


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Not only would I be joyful, I'd probably be suspect #1. I know it wouldn't change anything, but there's a certain justice to it that ya just gotta love.
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Morituri,

I'm not shedding any tears either.

When you play with fire, sometimes you get burned.

I'm certain he was just as prudent and circumspect in other aspects of his life as he was with your marriage.
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He chose to live his life the way he wanted , I doubt he cried for you . His life his choice , bad choice = repercussions .
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I hope his murderer was someone of low moral character, and not a BS who snapped.
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At the least, if the cops collected a urine sample from his grave, I'd get hauled downtown.
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I hope you aren't considered a suspect. That is one thing that concerns me, if that happened to the OM in my case I'm sure they would be all over me. I said a few ahh...things , yes a few things to him.
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As much as I hate the OW in my situation, if something horrible happened to her I would find no solace in that.
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Wow karma is really a b*(ch sometimes. Im like you I would not want to see no one done this way but would not shed no tears either.

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I hope you aren't considered a suspect. That is one thing that concerns me, if that happened to the OM in my case I'm sure they would be all over me. I said a few ahh...things , yes a few things to him.
Well Joe so far the police have not contacted me. I suspect that there were plenty of lowlifes who wanted nothing more than 'terminate with extreme prejudice' him. Thankfully it appears he was alone when he was murdered. It would have been tragic if there had been a woman with him - like my ex-wife - at the time the killer(s) went to pay him a visit and she also would have been killed to remove any possible witness that could identify him(them).

You know what's ironic? I was watching the opening scene of 'Watchmen' when I received the call from mutual friend of my ex-wife and mine. It was the scene in which Adrian Veidt fights with and murders Edward Blake by throwing him out of his high rise apartment building and on to the street below. Now I can't get Nat King Cole's "Unforgettable" out of my head.

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I recommend you read Watchmen instead of the movie, it is one of the best, if not the best graphic novels ever written. I have read it close to 20 times and still find new things.


Also, you do realize that your ex could also be considered a suspect?

Also, consider it could also have been a random crime. I guess details will come forth eventually.
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Thanks for the recommendation Almostrecovered. I read the Watchmen graphic novel way back when it came out in the mid 80's so I already know the characters and the plot line. I have to say though that I like the ending of the movie much better than the ending of the graphic novel. I know this might be considered heresy by the purists of the graphic novel but that's just me.

As far as my ex-wife being a suspect, I doubt it since she - and sources that know her have confirmed - ended her affair immediately after I found out about it. You see, unbeknownst to me until recently, my ex-wife had been the survivor of continuous rape by one of her male cousins when she was a teenage girl. The psychiatrist who treated her during her stay at the hospital said that it was not unheard of that some survivors of rape, engaged in self destructive behaviors like extra marital affairs. Besides, she has been under 24 hour supervision by her parents and siblings since she came out of the hospital a few weeks ago, so she has an air tight alibi as to her whereabouts. The same with me, since I haven't left my girlfriend's side for the last 2 days. In any case, more details of the murder should be forthcoming in the next couple of days or weeks.

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just wow. How crazy is that. Ive heard other stories of people being killed in car accidents while on the way to see their lover. Sometimes karma's a b*tch and sometimes she doesn't take any prisoners.

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Sometimes karma bites those in the @ss who think they are living right as well. Or maybe, it's just the cycle of life.
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