Re: how many haved filed for divorce and then reconcile before final
My H and I reconciled after 5 months (back together a little over a year now). We did file divorce papers, responses, went to court, blah blah. My H had everything at first because I screwed up (no affair or anything, just blew up), then he got in trouble with the law and was getting ready to lose everything and came crawling back, begging basically. I saw it for what it was though, but I was happy to have my family back after my emotional breakdown. We really didn't have any affairs on either of our parts, but he did do some pretty wrong stuff during our marriage (craigslist personals, lots of porn surfing, chatting with women online, physical and emotional abuse, lying and really who the heck knows what else for sure). He continued to do some stuff once we reconciled, but about 3 months ago he changed, so I'm somewhat waiting for the other shoe to drop, but I really hope this change sticks cause I like it a lot now! Good luck to you!