Re: I don't know what would be the right title
Some threads become a reference point that posters refer newbies to as an example to follow, your's will be one I will use in the future. The biggest mistake a person who experienced what we have is moving out of the house. If there where a list on commandments THOU SHALL NOT LEAVE THE FAMILY HOME THE WS LEAVES ! Would be the first and most important.
As to not showing her your anger: hell yea don't show her. She gets nothing from you until ever T is crossed. A part of a WS world view is that the BS needs to suffer and mourn the loss of the BS. I remember my mother hissing at me "she gets nothing from you, especially your pain". Shortly before she moved out she tried to poke me with a I guess you really don't care statement. My responses was cold and Spock like;
"got a check list of things you want me to suffer" ? "lets see can't sleep at night because I feel like I am slowly being lowered into a vat of body acid - check that one off.
"waves of pain watching you go out the front door to hook up with your F buddy" check that box too. Then I nailed her with: "pretty much check of every box and than some when Bob (her LTR live in boyfriend) you found in your bed with your best friend". "So I guess now you know what it is like to be a winner". She didn't move out for another month but she did leave me alone.
In any event could you write a post on what you think might have happened if you moved out and what your WS is gong though emotionally by not being in the house. Bye the way you are not eating anything she makes are you?