sds

Any one have any websites/blogs or even books that have helped your through situation? My wife cheated on me after 9 years of marriage. She's stopped since and are about ready to work on it.
Any suggestions would be helpful.

the guy

After The Affair, by Janis A. Spring

Riverside MFT

One of my favorite threads on here about overcoming an affair is How We overcame adultery

I have written a blog post at Improve My Marriage: Affairs: Healing from an Affair

I am also able to do online counseling for residents in California (click on the link in my signature).

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Brian, Marriage Counselor
My Counseling Webpage (for California Residents)
Improve My Marriage Blog

Geoffrey Marsh

I have a list of books on my blog...linked below.

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Best wishes,
GM

If you would like more help, check out my blog: http://myspousecheated.blogspot.com
My Story: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-...ways-hope.html

morituri

Listen to Mr Marsh. He knows what he speaks of.

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"Man is not a rational animal, he is a rationalizing animal." Robert A. Heinlein

Links

sds

Thank you all. I'm taking in all this information for sure. Don't know where it'll lead me but at least I have guidance.

PHTlump

After you deal with the immediate aftermath, look at The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011 to improve yourself and your marriage in general.

sds

I'm wondering if there is any more out there that focus on the husband as the BS? Seems that my searches always turn up resources for wives as the BS or "this can be applied to a man as the BS" add-on.