This little scene is a gift from Heaven. Now there is a police report which will detail the antics of your bat sh!t crazy SIL and how she came to attack your wife - police witnessed it. In a way, your SIL was/is more dangerous than the OM because she was the mastermind behind the OM coming to town and feeding his delusions that your wife was in love with him - as well as probably providing him with the means to stay a couple of days in town.
Contact your attorney and have your wife explain to him what happened. It seems that now you have what is needed for a RO to be issued against your SIL. She is after all the head of snake and once you cut the head, the body dies.
Correction: Two headed snake - the SIL created a two headed snake. Cause the OM is delusional (and bipolar) - she created an automaton who will need additional effort to disable.
I don't know how the SIL can even reasonably say you are abusive. Anybody who had abusive tendancies would have bloodied up 4 differnt people by now. Hell, I am far from abusive and I would have at the verry least kicked the **** out of 2 people by now. You have been a class act to this point and seem to be verry graceful under pressure. Good job, keep it up.
I'm almost afraid to click this thread anymore in fear of reading what has happened next. I am so sorry you have to deal with this cluster f*** CB.
a few thoughts....
I find it ironic that your SIL is screaming that you have brainwashed your wife. If there's any argument to be made that someone was brainwashed in this circle of people, it would be your brother.
While all I can do is arm-chair psychology (which is next to worthless), based on how you describe SIL past and present, your SIL has certainly exhibited symptoms of manic behavior from someone suffering bipolarism. (careless spending, inflated notions of romanticism, high sense of self to get involved in other's business to "make things right", fits of rage, etc.)
Thus the shame of it all is that by putting SIL and OM in the same room is like combining gas and an open flame. The only place these two should ever be together is in group therapy.
I hope someday your brother will wake up to the situation he's placed himself in and finds the strength to either get his wife serious help or leave her to own machinations.
I was about to reply yesterday that your future book was going well, a real page turner... and a few more twists we might be talking movie script material...
and then...... today.... Boom! b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l.
I cant wait for the sequel where it turns out OM & SIL had spent time together in the nut house and forged this relationship and whole plan to poach your wife & kids! lol.
Wow, this is insane. I have to say sorry for suggesting that your wife call your bro and SIL. Your SIL is already insane. Give her another push and she will go into psychopath killer mode. NC letter was a good idea, but I think RO will be more suited.
You are doing everything right. So keep on doing whatever you are doing.
I don't know what it is but I'm certain now my SIL must have some sort of mental issue, not trying to make excuses but I'm sure the many years of failed infertility treatments and failed adoption attempts is very likely to have played a roll in how she finds herself today mentally. My brother on the other hand always made excuses to odd behaviors and other stuff she did that although were not that important by itself on a bigger picture were already signs she was not well, years ago after their last attempt with the fertility treatments I suggested to my brother they should seek IC to deal with all this, don't if they ever did. I do feel very bad for him, yesterday it was like if wasn't him at all, I don't even find the words to explain.
My wife feels in disbelief about brother/SIL involvement she doesn't understand why they care or why they feel the need to involve themselves and SIL behavior yesterday is just beyond what she could imagine.
As far as the POSOM goes he did not left any trash in our mail box yesterday, my FIL confirmed he is still at the hotel but no trash, maybe I'm being overly optimistic but maybe POSOM just gave up!!!
I don't know what it is but I'm certain now my SIL must have some sort of mental issue, not trying to make excuses but I'm sure the many years of failed infertility treatments and failed adoption attempts is very likely to have played a roll in how she finds herself today mentally. My brother on the other hand always made excuses to odd behaviors and other stuff she did that although were not that important by itself on a bigger picture were already signs she was not well, years ago after their last attempt with the fertility treatments I suggested to my brother they should seek IC to deal with all this, don't if they ever did. I do feel very bad for him, yesterday it was like if wasn't him at all, I don't even find the words to explain.
My wife feels in disbelief about brother/SIL involvement she doesn't understand why they care or why they feel the need to involve themselves and SIL behavior yesterday is just beyond what she could imagine.
As far as the POSOM goes he did not left any trash in our mail box yesterday, my FIL confirmed he is still at the hotel but no trash, maybe I'm being overly optimistic but maybe POSOM just gave up!!!
I hope he gave up too but....expect at least one more desperate act of "love". Stuff like this makes me glad I live in a conceal and carry state. Good luck man.
I don't know what it is but I'm certain now my SIL must have some sort of mental issue, not trying to make excuses but I'm sure the many years of failed infertility treatments and failed adoption attempts is very likely to have played a roll in how she finds herself today mentally. My brother on the other hand always made excuses to odd behaviors and other stuff she did that although were not that important by itself on a bigger picture were already signs she was not well, years ago after their last attempt with the fertility treatments I suggested to my brother they should seek IC to deal with all this, don't if they ever did. I do feel very bad for him, yesterday it was like if wasn't him at all, I don't even find the words to explain.
My wife feels in disbelief about brother/SIL involvement she doesn't understand why they care or why they feel the need to involve themselves and SIL behavior yesterday is just beyond what she could imagine.
As far as the POSOM goes he did not left any trash in our mail box yesterday, my FIL confirmed he is still at the hotel but no trash, maybe I'm being overly optimistic but maybe POSOM just gave up!!!
He is probably just in another phase but no problem with wishful thinking if it helps you focus on your wife. Just behave as if he switched his approach. Very likely he is apratment and job hunting.
I doubt he gave up. He's probably busy buying billboards or doing something equally insane. More "romantic gestures" are sure to come. Don't get comfortable yet. Posted via Mobile Device
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Good luck man.
