I called my lawyer this morning and I waiting to hear back from him, I agree and do think the police is not taking this serious as it is or as I would like, I'm sure they busy and deal with much worse so yea on their book this may not yet be that bad but I want something to be done.
I already did all that and wife wants to stay with me, she does not want to be with POSOM.
He was all weekend inside his car and slept there, this morning FIL says he left and confirmed he is at the hotel.
My wife thinks this is insane, doesn't understand why he would do this on the first place and doesn't understand why he doesn't leave after she made very clear it's over and is confused about what he thinks he will accomplish with this.
Your wife needs to then go get a restraining order against him, they keep saying you can't do it, that she must do it, ok, let her finally do it. Posted via Mobile Device
I wanted to add a comment regarding the mail box. I don't think / believe (I used to work at a company that had a postal facility within it and I was at one time certified to Postal Regs) that the police have jurisdiction concerning US Mail. This is strictly a postal matter and needs to be reported to your local Postmaster as such. As the offending mail has been removed, next time some pops up in there, call the Postal Service direct to get someone to come out and take a look. Talk to the Postmaster before hand and let them know what has already happened, and can prepare to look into this next time it happens. When it happens again, DO NOT remove the mail from the box until they have investigated it.
Again, maybe things have changed since the mid 90's.
I intent to ask the lawyer again about a RO, maybe we can't get one now but maybe anything of the sort.
I think you are right, at some point the police mention that unless the unwanted mail mentions violence (what it doesn't) it is not their jurisdiction to investigate or do something about it.
More "love letters", poems and an engagement ring!!!!
This is strictly a postal matter and needs to be reported to your local Postmaster as such. As the offending mail has been removed, next time some pops up in there, call the Postal Service direct to get someone to come out and take a look. Talk to the Postmaster before hand and let them know what has already happened, and can prepare to look into this next time it happens. When it happens again, DO NOT remove the mail from the box until they have investigated it..
Get the Postmaster involved ASAP.
NOBODY but the USPS and YOU (and your immediate family) has the right to open your residential mailbox.
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