Re: Wife, wants the love of her life....WTF
clairebear once the OM is out of the picture , and he will be , you will find yourself going through different emotional states, you are still to experience the range of them and your wife will be the target.
Forewarn your wife , be ready and take time out for yourself, if you are angry let her know and go for a walk or go to the gym. Give yourself time to clear your mind , let the thoughts pass, if you analyze to much you will not have the answers you are seeking and this will irritate you.
Spend a good 15 to 20 hours a week alone time with your wife. Date her, court her, go to a football match together (if she wishes to) . Do something she enjoys as well, dancing or such like. This is husband and wife time.
For some pointers read the book "his needs her needs" by Harley , its about $11 from Amazon .
Last edited by Eli-Zor; 10-06-2011 at 05:08 PM.