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Old 09-26-2011, 10:32 AM   #1 (permalink)
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A list of songs that seemed to come up after my wifes PA that just seemed to say something to me.

How Could You - Saliva
Lover, Lover - Jerrod Niemann
Love Done Gone - Billy Currington
Good As I Was To You - Martina Mcbride
All These Years - Sawyer Brown
Didn't I - James Wesley
How Could You - Mario
Should've Said No - Taylor Swift
Do I - Luke Bryan
Someone Else Calling You Baby - Luke Bryan

Please add your songs to the list. (Even if they are love songs)
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You're making me feel old as I don't recognize any of those songs and only recognize the name Taylor Swift
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Old 09-26-2011, 10:40 AM   #3 (permalink)
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You're making me feel old as I don't recognize any of those songs and only recognize the name Taylor Swift
Great thing about the internet is you can hear all of them if you wish. Groveshark has them all.
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Old 09-26-2011, 10:40 AM   #4 (permalink)
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There's a newer one by Christina Perry "Jar of Hearts"


"Jar Of Hearts"

No, I can't take one more step towards you
‘Cause all that's waiting is regret
Don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live, half alive
And now you want me one more time

[Chorus:]
And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

I've learned to live, half alive
And now you want me one more time

[Chorus]

It took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
‘Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

Who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
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from The Bottom Half (Umphrey's McGee)




There were always questions
About where you been
With whom you went
Cuz I didn't know
I was only guessing
About what I'd seen
And I didn't mean no harm

But you were willing and were able
Though I never heard so I can't be sure
There was too much on my table
Stopping to eat
I took my seat for too long

There's not a thing worth remembering
When tomorrow can bring someone new
Get used to the thought
You can't be what you're not
Life has already got plans for you
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OK, you older folks may remember this one. I believe I read where it went to number 8 back in the early 90's. I saw them this weekend and danced to this with my daughter in front of the stage. It was pretty cool. It certainly matches what it's like.

Kentucky Headhunters - Oh Lonesome Me - YouTube

Everybody's going out and having fun

I'm a fool for staying home and having none.

I can't get over how she set me free.

Oh, lonesome me.


There must be some way that I can lose these lonesome blues

Forget about my past and find someone new

I've thought of everything from A to Z

Oh, lonesome me.


I'll bet she's not like me.

She's out and fancy free,

Flirting with the boys with all her charms

But I still love her so,

And brother don't you know

I'd welcome her right back here in my arms


There must be some way that I can lose these lonesome blues

Forget about my past and find someone new

I've thought of everything from A to Z

Oh, lonesome me.

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aren't all country songs about infidelity HiT?
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Pretty much
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aren't all country songs about infidelity HiT?
Most of them. There are others telling a tale of how the dog left..
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aren't all country songs about infidelity HiT?
Many are, that is true. But this one resonated very well with me. I'm a bit past that point now, since it talks about being willing to take her back. But, it fits perfectly the feelings closer to the time of finding out. Plus, it's a great song to dance the sweetheart shchottische to. That is my favorite dance. I danced that with my daughter Saturday night in front of the stage when they were playing it live. I was thinking about how very well the words fit as I was spinning her around the "dance floor" (parking lot in front of the court house in this case, lol).

Sweetheart Schottische
Choreographer: Unknown
Description: 26 count couples dance
Position: Promenade position", default", Both facing line of dance; lady standing on the gentleman's right side; each will have heels together; his left hand will hold her left hand either in front of his left shoulder, in front of and slightly higher than his waist, or in front of the lady's left shoulder; his right arm will reach behind the lady and hold her right hand in his right hand slightly to the right of her right shoulder
Music T-R-O-U-B-L-E by Travis Tritt
Born To Boogie by Hank Williams Jr.

MODIFIED VINE TO THE LEFT
1 Left foot step to the left
2 Right foot step behind left leg to the left
3 Left foot step to the left
4 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot
GENTLEMAN'S STEPS FOR BEATS 5-16 MODIFIED VINE TO THE RIGHT
5 Right foot step to the right-gentleman raises left hands higher than the lady's head so she can turn underneath
6 Left foot step behind right leg to the right-left hands are passing over her head and ready to be brought down
7 Right foot step to the right-left hands are brought down to waist height and the arms will be crossed
8 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot-arms are kept at waist height and fully extended

MODIFIED VINE TO THE LEFT
9 Left foot step to the left-gentleman's raises left hands higher than the lady's head so she can turn underneath
10 Right foot step behind left leg to the left-left and right hands are now raised as the lady has passed under the left hands and is ready to turn under the right hands
11 Left foot step to the left-left and right hands are brought down to waist height and the arms will be crossed
12 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot-arms are kept at waist height and fully extended
13 Right foot step forward-drop left hands, right hands are raised over lady's head for her turn
14 Left foot step forward
15 Right foot step forward
16 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot - re-grasp left hands in promenade position

LADY'S STEPS FOR BEATS 5-16 Ĺ TURN TO THE RIGHT
5 Right foot step forward in front of left leg to the left-gentleman's raises left hands higher than the lady's head so she can turn underneath
6 Left foot step to the left ľ turn to the right. Left hands are passing over her head and ready to be brought down
7 Right foot step to close to left foot ľ turn to the right. Left hands are brought down to waist height and the arms will be crossed
8 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot-arms are kept at waist height and fully extended-lady faces reverse line of dance
FULL TURN TO THE LEFT
9 Left foot step left ľ turn to the left. Gentleman's raises left hands higher than the lady's head so she can turn underneath
10 Right foot step ľ turn to the left. Left and right hands are now raised as the lady has passed under the left hands and is ready to turn under the right hands
11 Left foot step Ĺ to the left. Left and right hands are brought down to waist height and the arms will be crossed
12 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot-arms are kept at waist height and fully extended-lady faces reverse line of dance
1 Ĺ TURN TO THE RIGHT
13 Right foot step forward Ĺ turn to the right. Drop left hands, right hands are raised over lady's head for turning
14 Left foot step forward Ĺ turn to the right
15 Right foot step forward Ĺ turn to the right
16 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot. Re-grasp left hands in promenade position

STANDARD STEPS FOR GENTLEMAN AND LADY ARE IDENTICAL.
17 Left foot step forward
18 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot
19 Right foot step forward
20 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot
21 Left foot step backward
22 Right foot step backward
23 Left foot step backward
24 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot
25 Right foot step right
26 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot

REPEAT

OPTION 1
Substitute stomps for scuffs on counts 4, 8, 12, 24, and 26

OPTION 2
You may substitute these counts anytime you have already made the decision to use the option above

GENTLEMAN'S STEPS
13 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot-drop left hands, right hands are raised over lady's head for turning
14 Right foot step forward
15 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot
16 Left foot step forward - re-grasp left hands in promenade position

17 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot
18 Right foot step forward
19 Left foot scuff forward
20 Left foot continues into low kick forward

LADY'S STEPS
16 Left foot step forward - re-grasp left hands in promenade position
17 Right foot scuff forward beside left foot
18 Right foot step forward
19 Left foot scuff forward beside right foot
20 Left foot continues into low kick forward

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Most of them. There are others telling a tale of how the dog left..
I thought it was- dog died, wife left me, going down the highway in my 18 wheeler....
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I thought it was- dog died, wife left me, going down the highway in my 18 wheeler....
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Could've been...I hate sh*t kicker music anyway
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Not exactly the situation I'm in, but this song really has some parts in it that are relevant to my situation. Wife cheated. This song really talk to me about the pain this has caused and that the Karma bus always comes back around.

Justin Timberlake ~ What Goes Around...(Comes Around)

Hey girl, is he everything you wanted in a man
You know I gave you the world
You had me in the palm of your hand

So why your love went away
I just canít seem to understand
Thought it was me and you babe
Me and you until the end
But I guess I was wrong

Donít want to think about it
Donít want to talk about it
Iím just so sick about it
Canít believe itís ending this way

Just so confused about it
Feeling the blues about it
I just canít do without ya
Tell me is this fair?

Is this the way itís really going down?
Is this how we say goodbye?
Shouldíve known better when you came around
That you were gonna make me cry
Itís breaking my heart to watch you run around
ĎCause I know that youíre living a lie
Thatís okay baby ícause in time you will findÖ

What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around

Now girl, I remember everything that you claimed
You said that you were moving on now
And maybe I should do the same
Funny thing about that is I was ready to give you my name
Thought it was me and you, babe
And now, itís all just a shame
And I guess I was wrong

Donít want to think about it
Donít want to talk about it
Iím just so sick about it
Canít believe itís ending this way
Just so confused about it
Feeling the blues about it
I just canít do without ya
Can you tell me is this fair?

Is this the way things are going down?
Is this how we say goodbye?
Shouldíve known better when you came around (shouldíve known better that you were gonna make me cry)
That you were going to make me cry
Now itís breaking my heart to watch you run around
ĎCause I know that youíre living a lie
Thatís okay baby ícause in time you will find

What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around

What goes around comes around
Yeah
What goes around comes around
You should know that
What goes around comes around
Yeah
What goes around comes around You should know that

Donít want to think about it (no)
Donít want to talk about it
Iím just so sick about it
Canít believe itís ending this way
Just so confused about it
Feeling the blues about it (yeah)
I just canít do without ya
Tell me is this fair?

Is this the way things are going down?
Is this how we say goodbye?
Shouldíve known better when you came around (shouldíve known better that you were gonna make me cry)
That you were going to make me cry
Now itís breaking my heart to watch you run around
ĎCause I know that youíre living a lie
But thatís okay baby ícause in time you will find

What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around
What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around

[Comes Around interlude:]

Let me paint this picture for you, baby

You spend your nights alone
And he never comes home
And every time you call him
All you getís a busy tone
I heard you found out
That heís doing to you
What you did to me
Ainít that the way it goes

You cheated girl
My heart bleeds girl
So it goes without saying that you left me feeling hurt
Just a classic case
A scenario
Tale as old as time
Girl you got what you deserved

And now you want somebody
To cure the lonely nights
You wish you had somebody
That could come and make it right
But girl I ainít somebody with a lot of sympathy Youíll see

What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told ya, hey (What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told ya, hey (What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told ya, hey (What goes around comes back around)
I thought I told ya, hey

See?
You shouldíve listened to me, baby
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Because (What goes around comes back around)
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This song is actually a good one for the forums
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She Never Cried Infront of Me - Toby Keith

This one rings true.

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You'll Think of Me - Keith Urban
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