Unless you have evidence of that, that you can back up, that is a mighty serious accusation to make against someone. Especially against a couple who are no longer here to defend themselves. And, contrary to what was stated earlier in this thread, they never posted anything about having an open marriage. They posted that she had a ONS with her college professor, who was also a well known basketball coach, and he had an RA that lasted for about a day, as well.
From the tone of your posts regarding Mr. & Mrs. JA, one might suspect that someone was scorned that they might have missed out on all of this "alleged" action.
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I have nothing against them.
If you check the link
, you will discover that nearly everything she posted is gone. None of her own threads remain. I could not have made up such a story. It was written about in the banned members thread, though I do see that she is not banned.
In any case, I merely wanted to point out that comment that brought them up as a couple in reconciliation, listed them as an example of a rare reconciliation. My reply was that there marriage was not conventional.
I don't believe I mixed them up with other posters. But if I did I will certain apologize.
Returning to the topic, an example of an imperfect reconciliation would be Racer. He stayed with his wife but he never found her capable of genuine remorse. He stayed in any case. I think he felt irritation and discomfort.
Another example of imperfect reconciliation was the music teacher married to the art teacher. She had an affair with a student. She trickle truthed him and was in false R for period. She was sorry and I believe she genuinely wanted to have her old marriage back but it was gone. If they stayed together I hope that they managed to reconnect. Her husband was also on TAM.
Mrs. Matthias...I think that was her name.