09-27-2011, 10:59 AM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Vulnerable and emotional..
Until he owns this crap and admit the fact that he made the choice to sh!t were he eats, he now has another consequence.
I have no problem supporting someone that owns up to there bad choices, but if it is a case of "why am I getting screwed" well then I see no remorse and in hand no support.
So my question, is it a case of blameshifting and gaslighting or he has manned up and taken responsiblity for his bad choices?
2nd question, what kind of support is he looking for? A "reward" from you in helping him get out of a mess he could have avoided by having an affair out side of the work place, instead of inside the work place?LOL
What is he looking from you? What kind of support?
If it was my W and a co worker, she would have had to quit her job and we would have lived off mac&cheese. Again another consequence that should be faced not avoided....another lesson learned so as this cheating crap never happens again.