Re: how do APs rationalise destroying a family?
I find it much more amazing how many people are completely degraded by their spouses in the worst possible way and as soon as said spouse apologize they are ready to just back into a relationship with them. So many accept this treatment, it's really astounds me. If you had told me this before I started reading these boards I would have told you you are crazy. But it's true. Men seem to do this more then women do.
I get that cheating is human nature to some extent, I hate it but I at least understand it. But the other makes no sense to me.
Also how many women are susceptible to compliments. It amazes me that for so many married women this is really all it takes. Prolonged compliments and they are ready to destroy their entire world, their family and their spouse who has often put in years of loyalty. It's actually scary. An unscrupulous man would look at this and realize all they need to do is compliment every women and if you only hit on 10% you still have a ton of women willing to give you what. I would actually be weary of a women who told me her primary love language is "words of affirmation", because they require little work and can't really be verified because they are so shallow in nature. They have as much substance as cotton candy, and yet so many lives are destroyed for them.
Last edited by sokillme; 04-04-2017 at 07:46 PM.