Dude, please tell me you atleast divorced your wife before reconciling with her?
To me, even an EA would be a dealbreaker but man, once she gives her body to him, the wedding vows are down the drain, the marriage is dead and she has no right to call herself a wife.
You know what REALLY pisses me off? When these cheaters, after getting caught, say, "I had no intention of leaving my spouse." oh, really? And where the **** did you come up with the logic that falling in love with someone else and giving yourself to them did not equate to leaving your spouse?!
This is a a fantastic question.
You do realize that the television, radio, music videos, and every aspect of our current popular culture encourages this behavior.
But, it's even worse than that.
If someone was to ask you what are the chief components of male vice, we'd all know the answer. Sex and violence.
Guys that can't keep it zipped up. Fighting instead of talking and communicating, yadda, yadda, yadda.
I have a direct question for you.
What are the chief components of female vice?
If you were to listen to our popular culture, women are blameless and have no issues. It's just men that screw it up.
Do you believe that?