If you read any of Willard Harley's stuff, it becomes apparent that the man is a sexist dinosaur. He has a tremendous double standard re the genders and his advice is slanted against males.
He's actually a brilliant guy.
But, like most people, he has areas where he's a bit shortsighted.
If you read his thoughts on "love busting", he's on it.
Emotional outbursts, disrespectful judgements, dishonesty, selfish demands...
All - completely spot on.
If I were to critique him, he includes "annoying habits" in his list.
Well, who is to "judge" what's an annoying habit?
Countless numbers of men attempt to "change" those annoying habits, only to find that the goalposts move.
Harley is mute on this very typical and harmful problem.
"We're not connected, but we 'would be' if only YOU would change this annoying habit"
So, one changes that "annoying habit" only to find there is now "another reason" why we're not "connected"