Marduk I don't really go out that much at night. If I was dressed up and heading out yes she would ask me where I'm going.
Then what are you waiting for?
When my wife and I were working on our marriage yet struggling, there was a party I was invited to for one of my former soldiers retirement.
I invited her to go. She declined. I was disappointed. So I got dressed and got ready to leave. She looked at me as I was about to head out the door:
"Wow, what are you all dressed up over? Form fitting shirt? You are wearing cologne too? Who are really you going to impress?"
Insecure, clearly second guessing her choice.
I smiled and said:
"I don't dress nice and wear cologne to impress anyone. I do it for myself because I like to look and smell good. See you soon!"
Needless to say, I received several texts from her while at the party (insecurity and seeking me out at a time she was normally loathe to do so). I also was getting checked out by another married woman while there, who happened to catch me coming out of the bathroom with my fly down...and she made sure to point it out to me with a smile of her own. Not my best moment...
Not that I was interested, but this moment did two things at a time when I was really questioning my own value:
1. That I was desirable even if my wife did not treat me as such.
2. My wife began to remember that others may actually think me desirable.
Think about it, OP.
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