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beenbetrayed

I haven't talked to her in more than a month. She didn't have to be there. I think she's thought we've been annulled for awhile now. She probably thinks that we were annulled when she got served papers back in November. She never asked when it would be official and I'm sure she doesn't know how long of a process it actually was.
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happyman64

BB,

Good for you. Keep moving forward my man and never look back.

Think of this experience as the worst gift you were given.

It sucked but at least you did not waste a lifetime with her.

There are plenty of great women looking for a great guy.

Have fun, get out there and find one that will love you and only you!!!

Happy

AngryandUsed

Been,

How did you come to know about her affair, if you have not posted in this thread.

Take care, and good lucks.

beenbetrayed

I saw text messages on her phone and then she admitted to everything when I confronted her. She said she wants to fix things with us and that she won't ever talk to the OM again. I was willing to try out counseling but I installed a keylogger on my computer. With that, I found out she had a secret email address with more than 700 emails to just him. I read so much crap on there, I couldn't even recognize her anymore. And she had him come to the apartment after she promised she wasn't going to talk to him anymore. I left right away at that point
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beenbetrayed

Lol she applied for a credit card under my name. Got a call from capital one this morning. Anyone know the jail sentence for that kind of credit card fraud in california?
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iheartlife

Ouch. I'm sure Capital One doesn't take that stuff lying down.

keko

She knows your SSN?

Either way get a legal advice right away. That's not something to let her get away with, make sure to check your credit score to see if anything is out of the norm.

calif_hope

Capital One is not going to anything other than deny the card. What you need to do Betrayed is 1 Make sure Capital One does not record the denile on your credit reports and 2. You need to contact the big 3 credit agencies and have them flag your credit report the identity theft and attempts to apply for credit - if she tries it again the Red Flag will give them a warning to investigate.
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Shaggy

And you need to see if she has opened any other cards in your name. This should show up on your credit report that you should now request.
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Eli-Zor

I would find out how to lay charges against her , she knows she is breaking the law just as she knew she was having an affair . Treat her as you would any other criminal, report her and if possible have her prosecuted.
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beenbetrayed

Capital one said they are going to investigate and have her arrested. I'm definitely gonna get my credit checked. Yea she has my ssn memorized cuz she used to work for a bank. I never really worried about it cuz I didn't think she would stoop this low. But I need to lower my expectations about her lol
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keko

Is she having a financial hardship or just trying to screw you over again?

It doesn't make much sense for a someone who works at a bank to do such a foolish thing.

beenbetrayed

Yea I'm pretty confused about it too. But I haven't talked to her since January so I have no idea what's going on with her.
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keko

Are you going to notify her or her family? Not about what actions you might take rather what they're thinking.