Re: Been cheated on for last 1.5 years
Sorry OP, your marriage was over before it ever began. SOME, and i do mean some of us can get over an affair, especially if it was just once, and just basically sex.
But i think the majority of us draws the line forever when its an ongoing affair. Because usually its both an Emotional and Physical Affair. You just can't flip the switch to "off" when its been going on for so long. Trust me, you never knew this woman. No matter who she was when you met her, her saying yes to your engagement proposal, and her holding your hands up the alter. She wasn't the woman you thought she was. I could never look her in the face again. The damage is done, and even if you could forgive her, you could never forget the image of somebody on top of her for the last year and a half when she should of been only loving you. You deserve better, and she doesn't deserve and resemblence of happyness.