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Old 10-26-2011, 04:16 PM   #76 (permalink)
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He threw her under the bus, and now she "realizes" the mistake she has made-why am I not surprised.
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Old 10-26-2011, 05:00 PM   #77 (permalink)
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Actually this type of situation seems more common than people realize. When a single woman becomes OW for the MM, she sometimes decide to date another single man and even marry to settle down, all the while still carrying on the secret rendezvous with MM. Some MM even encourages her to date other men to settle down out of guilt or to get her off his back a little.
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Old 10-26-2011, 06:07 PM   #78 (permalink)
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Eventually you should expose the affair to the other man's wife, if you havent done so already.
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Old 10-26-2011, 06:17 PM   #79 (permalink)
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Eventually you should expose the affair to the other man's wife, if you havent done so already.
I already did. Told her last week
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Old 10-26-2011, 06:23 PM   #80 (permalink)
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Well that explains him throwing her under the bus.
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Well that explains him throwing her under the bus.
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Yup. She had the nerve to text me "I thought he loved me". Lol. Hilarious
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Old 10-26-2011, 06:32 PM   #82 (permalink)
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Yup. She had the nerve to text me "I thought he loved me". Lol. Hilarious
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How old is she, 15?
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Old 10-26-2011, 06:58 PM   #83 (permalink)
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Yup. She had the nerve to text me "I thought he loved me". Lol. Hilarious
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I always love it when the OM dumps them.
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Old 10-26-2011, 07:00 PM   #84 (permalink)
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I always love it when the OM dumps them.
Yeah, good times.
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Old 10-26-2011, 07:08 PM   #85 (permalink)
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A cheater has cheated and she thinks she can uncheat the one thing that can not be uncheated, since it's happened, that one thing is MArriage. You have sighned a contract by her emotionaly and physicaly with heart fealt approval by both families to let two individuals come togethor as 1 and bear a family to progress children to be even better people, in the name of the 1 and ongly God willing. You can be merciful see how far that goes... but infidelity is infidelity, don't let a cheater ruen you and your family, especialy your children. A cheater has been nothing more than selfish and only considerabley interested in her / his own lustful sick well beings. you need to continue on and parry this nonesense, adn move out and or on. if she been having sex with other men befroe marriage, then thats a sign that she's interested in having alot of sex in marriage, God willin git's not true. Al woman and men can change and will change if they choose to. Wtach and see, if life / your marriage has been short live, best thing to do is find a woman with values that can be upheld and respected as a better woman/ mother and or stepmother and a for sure longer lasting approved wife.
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She was cheating up to and after giving her vows? That isn't a woman you should even try to stay with, her wedding and vows meant nothing to her.
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I agree. Short term marriage, no kids?-bail as fast as you can.
I know this hurtslike hell. But, she has shown youher true self.You are blessed in that regard(not to minimize your pain and the trauma). The survival rate after infidelity is abyssmal.
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OMG that`s rich.

It sounds evil but honestly you should get a little pleasure from her pain right now.
She deserves it.
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Yup. She had the nerve to text me "I thought he loved me". Lol. Hilarious
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You should have texted back, "funny you should say that, I recently had a similar experience"
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Old 10-26-2011, 07:27 PM   #89 (permalink)
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I agree, you must tell the othe rmans wife, its a fact he's betraying her, think of how broken that mans wife must be god iwllign great things happen in the name fo the 1 and onyl maeen asalaam klolpeacE!Lol:!)
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Yup. She had the nerve to text me "I thought he loved me". Lol. Hilarious
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Wow! I would've texted her back: LOL
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