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Old 11-21-2011, 06:33 PM   #121 (permalink)
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BB, have you been in contact with a lawyer and started the proceedings going?

I know it is real hard but the sooner you get started, the soone ryou are done. And you dont want to have to worry about joint taxes in 2013 if your still married at the beginning of 2012.

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Yea I have. She was served with annulment papers on November 1. So just gotta wait now until December 1 to do anything. Yea it was hard to talk to a lawyer but I can't wait till I'm officially annulled. I definitely wanna start the new year without her
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Old 11-22-2011, 05:14 PM   #122 (permalink)
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After wrestling with the decision for so long, I decided im gonna try to find out if anything happened with that other guy. Ive been bothered by just the fact that I don't know for so long that I figured it's best to find out for sure so I can put it behind me.... Let's see what happens...
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Old 11-22-2011, 07:08 PM   #123 (permalink)
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Do not get dragged into another drama with your ex skank. She will use it to try to manipulate you. Stay strong.
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Old 11-22-2011, 08:20 PM   #124 (permalink)
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Do not get dragged into another drama with your ex skank. She will use it to try to manipulate you. Stay strong.
Thanks man. Yea if I find out it's true, I plan on calling her once and telling her that I know and then blocking her number.
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Old 11-22-2011, 10:31 PM   #125 (permalink)
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Thanks man. Yea if I find out it's true, I plan on calling her once and telling her that I know and then blocking her number.
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This will serve no purpose. It will just make you more stressed if you find out your instincts are right.
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Old 11-23-2011, 02:32 AM   #126 (permalink)
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This will serve no purpose. It will just make you more stressed if you find out your instincts are right.
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Yea It might. But I've been battling with this decision for more than a month and atleast the fact that I know will let me move on from that battle.
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Old 11-23-2011, 05:41 AM   #127 (permalink)
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Yea It might. But I've been battling with this decision for more than a month and atleast the fact that I know will let me move on from that battle.
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Like you and others, you might need this info so you can get closure from all this.
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Old 11-23-2011, 05:46 AM   #128 (permalink)
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yeah, Im a need to know thing kind of guy myself and I understand the drive to do that, of course, that sort of thing can either help you detach or make things worse
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Old 11-24-2011, 09:10 PM   #129 (permalink)
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Awwww she's so sweet. She texted me happy thanksgiving. I should probably forgive her for everything now
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Old 11-24-2011, 11:34 PM   #130 (permalink)
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She is a real piece of work. Good riddance.
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Old 11-24-2011, 11:35 PM   #131 (permalink)
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Awwww she's so sweet. She texted me happy thanksgiving. I should probably forgive her for everything now
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Yep, sounds like she's completely remorseful and ready to be a good wife. You must be so proud of her!

So did you text back anything, or just ignore her fishing for attention?
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Old 11-24-2011, 11:46 PM   #132 (permalink)
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Ignored it. I was tempted but didnt respond with anything
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Old 11-25-2011, 06:11 PM   #133 (permalink)
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Apparently nothing happened. Or so he says. But that's it, I'm dropping it.
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Old 11-25-2011, 06:19 PM   #134 (permalink)
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Apparently nothing happened. Or so he says. But that's it, I'm dropping it.
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I'm missed what lead up to this. What are you talking about?
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Old 11-25-2011, 06:28 PM   #135 (permalink)
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Oh, I was suspicious about another guy a few years ago and wanted to know if there was anything that happened between them too. One of my friends is very good friends with the guy that I was suspicious about so I had my friend call and try to find out if anything happened. He knows the guy really well and says that he has no doubt in his mind that nothing happened between him and my wife after talking to the guy. So yea, whatever, now I know atleast(assuming it's true) and can just put it all behind me. Still doesn't change what she is.
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