Re: Saw Wife Cheating with my friend
whoa, lot's of replies since yesterday.
couple of updates, wife went to counselor and they basically told her she did it on purpose (subconsciously), and wanted me to find out, so she would get the added attention from me that she was craving. Not sure what to think of that, because she never complained or said anything was lacking. The other item she kept close to her is that when she was very young, she was heavier and not attractive and always thought she was "ugly & fat" since her teens...even though she is quite the opposite now, she's never been able to shake that self consciousness. Counselor told her when she heard someone say she was "attractive and very desirable" this summer, she needed to hear that from more than just me, and she responded to it last weekend. She is going to continue with counselling until that part of her insecurity is figured out, then we'll go together for counselling about the state of our relationship.
We go for a walk now every day after work so we can talk through this and ask questions, I keep asking about further incidents and she is continuing to say no, I mentioned if she would be willing to take a polygraph and there was zero hesitation, followed by a enthusiastic yes...that was good to hear.
there are many questions on here that I haven't answered, right now I don't have time to go through them all...maybe on the weekend. Can someone summarize all the questions and put them on one post???...kidding.
that's it for now...