Saw Wife Cheating with my friend
3 days ago, we had a party at our place, many drinks were had, good food, conversation etc. I observed my wife being extra attentive to one of my friends, as the night carried on I just wanted to go to bed, but she, nor my friend did so they stayed up. Being a trusty person by nature, I went to bed....but then couldn't help but think something was going on, I looked outside and saw both of them kissing/groping each other. Right then, my perfect world seemed to implode and I knew this would be the end...my wife and my friend making out, etched in my memory for ever, how could I ever get over this. I'm at day 3 now and we're talking and seeking counsel, but I can't get past this.
She assures me it was nothing more than what I saw, and never was anything prior to that evening.
Reading this board I see much worse things were a couple have conconciled over.
WTF is the next step here.??/All i can see is red and want a divorce. my kids are so important so I really don't want to screw this up and make the wrong decision....I know I need to chill for a while before I make any decisions but can someone tell me something...