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post #46 of 48 (permalink) Old 10-28-2011, 12:12 AM
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Re: I cheated but I want my husband back. Please please help!

Let him go and work on yourself to find out why you have to keep on cheating. Fix yourself and hopefully your husband will have a big enough heart to see that you really have changed for the better and give you another chance.

Aside from that, move on with your life, you screwed up and you have to live with it with or without your husband. If he kicks you to the curb, hopefully this will wake you up to not do it again.

If he takes you back, I hope you really have learned something but somehow I don't think you have.

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post #47 of 48 (permalink) Old 10-28-2011, 12:23 AM
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Re: I cheated but I want my husband back. Please please help!

There have been some harsh comments here, but the bottom line is you have inflicted the worst pain one can ever imagine to your BH. Accept the consequences along with some negative posts here.

To seek reconciliation, you have to be patient and consistent with your action. And, most importantly, you must be 100% honest from this point on. The lost trust is the hardest thing to regain in the aftermath of A. Be remorseful and be willing to do anything to regain your worth as his wife. There may not be any guarantee, but miracles do happen when you pray and try your hardest.
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post #48 of 48 (permalink) Old 04-29-2012, 01:36 PM
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Re: I cheated but I want my husband back. Please please help!

Originally Posted by marta View Post
The OM is like dead for me now -- although the first reason for the affair to stop was him being a womanizer..

edit: crap just found out this is a zombie thread
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