10-15-2011, 02:44 PM
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My husband and I have had major problems for about a year now. I've posted before. Anyway we stayed living together but separated for awhile. Dated, got really close to other people. but about 3 wks ago, we started talking about making it work. We decided to stay together, moved to a new house for a fresh start. He had broken up with his gf (that he had during our separation). they kept texting. He said he was just trying to be nice to her and that he was keeping it strictly platonic. Said theyd never even had sex. About a week ago My Dog got out of the fence and never came back. I love my animals. I was heartbroken. Putting up signs, ads in the paper, anything I could do. I let it consume me I guess. Anyway we started arguing. he said i was bring him down with my depressed attitude. I told him i needed someone that could be there for me. I asked him Tues. if this is what he still wanted. He said it's what he's always wanted. Tues nite I snooped ( I know it was wrong) and found some texts b/t him and the exgf that were talking about meeting the next night, while I was at work. Then I found some texts from her talking about how good itll feel to have him in her again. Naturally, I called out, but left like usual. Came back early, and she was here at my house. They were snuggling on the couch with my son in the next room. Of course it was a huge argument. I told him it was over to get out. He had no where to go. said he wasn't going anywhere till he could get on his feet and find a place to stay. Meanwhile THEY are still texting back and forth. I was so upset, he could at least try to act like she meant nothing to him. He was consoling her bc she said she felt bad for messing up his marriage, which if she felt that bad the ***** wouldn't have been in my house when she knew we were married!!! Anyway He says now that it was all a miscommunication and that he thought we were over. He says that I wasn't being affectionate and he didn't think I wanted to be here anymore. Don't get me wrong we have had some horrible times. I've told him outright that I didn't want to be married (months ago). We've both done some horrible things to each other. But this was supposed to be our fresh start! How could he not give me anytime to mourn! He knows how I am about my dogs! Even me being standoffish one week shouldn't give him and excuse to bring her here! or even to be with her! They were still texting I love you to each other! He says He's always wanted me, but he didn't think i was an option because I had at one point told him I didn't want to be here. Now he says we need to move on and forget Wed. nite ever happened bc it was just a miscommunication! Even though we'd only been back together for a few weeks, I still think he was wrong. I don't know what to think right now.
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