So I told my wife I've decided after all to go to Costa Rica and she was furious. She didn't mention abortion but immediately launched into a discussion about divorce. I said I really needed to get paternity tests done on the new baby and our second daughter. She scoffed at that but just wanted to make sure I'd be paying for it.
Then we got to distribution of assets. Her idea was that since there are 5 of us, I should get 1/5 and she the rest. I said no way: 50/50 and that's how it ended.
I've always had a problem with the timeline of her affair - it just sounds like a load of crap and recently I've been wondering if every time I was overseas, she's been having affairs so I said: "If you take and pass a polygraph to confirm your timeline and to confirm this has been your only affair, I'll agree to 1/5 for me and 4/5 for you."
She freaked at that and said no way and that she wouldn't be humiliated by taking a polygraph. She got angry and shut that idea down with "end of discussion." She refuses to take a polygraph.
How much should I be reading into that?
Am I wrong to assume that her reaction basically confirms either her timeline is a load of crap or she has had multiple affairs?
Then we got to distribution of assets. Her idea was that since there are 5 of us, I should get 1/5 and she the rest. I said no way: 50/50 and that's how it ended.
I've always had a problem with the timeline of her affair - it just sounds like a load of crap and recently I've been wondering if every time I was overseas, she's been having affairs so I said: "If you take and pass a polygraph to confirm your timeline and to confirm this has been your only affair, I'll agree to 1/5 for me and 4/5 for you."
She freaked at that and said no way and that she wouldn't be humiliated by taking a polygraph. She got angry and shut that idea down with "end of discussion." She refuses to take a polygraph.
How much should I be reading into that?
Am I wrong to assume that her reaction basically confirms either her timeline is a load of crap or she has had multiple affairs?